Wednesday, February 4, 2015

It's looking like a House!

 
WOW!  We hadn't been out to the house since last week.  Doesn't it look pretty?  All the windows and doors are in.  Most of the electric and some of the plumbing is done.  The guys were there working on the A/C.  Most of the siding is on too. 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
We got to meet some of the sweet guys working on the A/C and a couple from Rochester came by to see the house too. 
 
This is really exciting.  I know I say that a lot but it has been cool to watch the house come together from the plans a friend drew up with me to the actual building!  Still doesn't seem quite real yet!  The move in date is hopefully next month! 
 
 
Tomorrow is all three little ones' IEP- that is the Individualized Educational Plan.....  always something to fight about.  Maybe not as much this year but I'm sure they will try and take some service away from them   I can usually count on the good old school board to try that. 
 
One time a very spiritual special needs mom said to me "Yvonne, you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar"  I said  " Actually you can catch more flies with a dead body but who wants flies?  LOL  I don't have much time to give honey to anyone but my honeys :)
 
 
 
Until tomorrow.....
 
 

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Southern Cooking Made Easy!


Today I've been boiling peanuts.  If you're not from the South you may not have ever enjoyed this wonderful treat.  In fact you may have never seen a raw peanut before!  Don't worry Raw Peanuts are not bloody!  In fact they could be eaten raw but since they grow under ground, it's best to boil or bake them first. 

It's really easy.  Just put them in a big pot with lots of water...... BOIL them for hours keep adding water and salt.  After about 30 minutes, turn it into a slow boil, then after about 6 hours or so, try one.  If it tastes good, then drain them and start shelling! 

 
So tonight we will be enjoying boiled peanuts as we watch tv.  YUM!
 
Hope you all have a great week!
 
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Sunday, February 1, 2015

REvaccinations

Her foster mom Nikki writes:

"Don't miss it! My Selah is our SCH Courage Child of the Week, and she needs a sponsor! Could it be you? Selah is brand new and she is blowing me away with how she is thriving in our home! Click the blog to read more about her and see a video of her homecoming! Please help us spread the word by changing your facebook cover photo to this image and link to the blog to help us find her a sponsor! "

#schcouragekids

http://schindia.com/2015/02/01/courage-child-of-the-week-selah/


I'd LOVE for Selah (named after our Selah) to have a sponsor.  You can sponsor at any amount monthly.  She can have several sponsors to meet the need.   This would be a great thing to do, or to get your group involved with.    Maybe your Sunday School or small group class could sponsor her?

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Well after my almost 6 miles hike yesterday my knees are killing me.  I had to sleep with a pillow under them and a heating pad on top of them.  They were hurting before the hike.  Sometimes they ache and it goes away.  I'm hoping for that!!!!   I just hurt all over all the time, most of the time I can deal with it.  I've been hurting for about six years now, sometimes it's worse than others.  I push through, I don't have a choice LOL  I don't remember NOT being in pain, it makes me feel old.  I rarely take advil or anything, don't like meds.  I've tried Oils, think they are a complete waste of money.  Usually the more I exercise, the less I hurt.  That is just not true today!  Hoping this goes away.

Don't think I've shared this but we are redoing all of our girls' shots.  When we brought Shad home, our doctor redid all the shots that was on his record because we just didn't know if they'd been done or been done correctly.  Well I wanted to redo the girls' but for some reason, maybe since they were older, he didn't want to redo them.  With all the recent talk of measles outbreaks and the lack of people vaccinating their kids...I took Sarah in on Friday to get some of the shots redone.  Based on her age, there were only some we could do.  I think she got three.  Our doctor was more concerned than he was almost three years ago when they came home.  Selah will be going soon to be revaccinated on a few shots also. 

(no there is nothing wrong with her feet, she lets them fall into that position at times but they aren't stuck there)


Isn't this the funniest and most mournful looking picture of Sarah waiting on the shots?  Jon was about to fall asleep.  We were there for some time as we had lots of paperwork for the three little ones, because their IEP, school planning meeting is coming up.

For the record if you don't know my stand on vaccinations.....
My family did not vaccinate, I do not know why.  I never heard it discussed.  But my guess is that they were just "afraid" of doctors.  I don't think it was a religious reason.  Who knows?  The only vaccine I received was for polio, otherwise I do not think I'd been allowed in school. 

I got every stupid sickness known to childhood!!!!!!   I truly almost died of the whooping cough over the summer before my kindergarten year of school.

I have five kids, they get every known vaccine including the flu shot yearly.  No reactions, no problems.  They are healthy, rarely sick, even my special needs kids. 

If you hear crazy statistics, realize it for what it is....a crazy statistic.  Measles still kill  "measles fell 60% from an estimated 873,000 deaths in 1999 to 345,000 in 2005.[34] Estimates for 2008 indicate deaths fell further to 164,000 globally,"  So in 2008 there were 164,000 preventable deaths in the world because of measles!!!!!   Most of them are in developing countries where the children can not get good medical care such as hospitalization and IV's but still some of those deaths did occur in developed nations.

Personally after living through what I did, I would never not vaccinate my children!  People who make the choice to not vaccinate, really do not understand what these disease can do to a child or an adult.  I know a lot of folks who don't vaccinate or who under-vaccinate and they've been safe....thus far.  But as more and more parents quit vaccinating, I believe these diseases will come back and will begin killing more and more kids.  I always want to invite people to take a walk in my family graveyard dating back to the early 1800's.  There are so many children's graves...up until the 60's and 70's, then there are very few....wonder why???????  Because of vaccines and better medical health care that's why!

The strange thing about my family, they didn't vaccinate me, but they'd tell stories of epidemics of various diseases hitting town and killing kids.  Isn't that odd?  It's like they understood the danger, but didn't protect me!   I will never understand that!

In fact, I'm planning on asking my doctor what vaccinations I should have.  I realize even with a vaccination, there is a chance a person could get sick.  I do not want to take any chances with my kids should I get sick with something and then possibly pass it on to them.

So I just encourage you if you have children, do what your doctor say.  I totally trust my doctor (who happens to have five kids also) and if he feels something is good enough for his kids that he adores, then I think it's ok for mine!  When Sam was little and so sickly, I did worry giving him his vaccines, but we did it, and he had no issues nor has he had any of those dreadful diseases!

Not only do diseases cause death, they can also cause blindness, deafness, mental retardation and  even loss of limbs due to complications.  In fact one of the nurses over my daughter's nursing care used to work at a Shiner's hospital and she's had many patients who lost limbs to chicken pox that became infected!  Don't forget even if your child escapes these disease as a child IF they get them as an adult they are almost always so much worse!  When mumps develops in a boy after puberty or an adult man, it sometimes causes testicular inflammation that can affect sperm production and lead to  Sterility!  How sad!   And don't forget the kids who actually can't be vaccinated due to cancer or other REAL issues or the ones too young.  When we don't vaccinate, it increases their chances of coming down with something. 

Well that's my thoughts for today!  I'm seeing a lot about this on the news and on Facebook.  Most of what I see on FB is silly statistics that mean nothing.  Be careful who/what you follow-there is a lot riding on this! 

Hope you all had a great weekend!  And hope the coming week is good.






Saturday, January 31, 2015

A Hike in the Woods

Today Jon and I hiked almost six miles in the woods.  11,680 steps for me.  Both of us love being out in the woods.  I prefer a larger trail than he does so today we went on a well marked trail.  We walked all the way in, quiet, both of us thinking about things.  Then on the way out, we started talking about our life.  One thing I'm so thankful for is that he & I are generally 100% on the same page.  It makes life so much easier, we don't try, it just happens.  So we were talking about some things we've thought about for years and it just amazes me how we've come to the same conclusion. 

Its funny how marriage evolves.  In some ways Jon and I are a lot alike.  Neither of us are shy in public situations, our "world view" is generally the same...only difference is Jon has TACT, mine & his share of it!  And I have ZERO tact.  I try sometimes to use tact and then think "what the heck, let me just say what needs to be said"  Jon on the other hand has enough Tact for the both of us and is probably the only reason I'm still alive LOL  Otherwise someone would have shot me by now, I'm sure!

When we first got married and for the first decade, all I could see was our differences.  I'm sure he felt the same way.  But as time went on, and we grew up, we began seeing how much alike we are.  The Bible says a married couple becomes one flesh, I understand that now.  For us it took awhile :) 

Our biggest fights were about "spiritual things".  Basically he thought I was not "spiritual " enough and I thought he was "too spiritual"   LOL  that sounds funny doesn't it?  Now we look back and laugh at the ridicules things we fussed about.  Probably 95% of it were things we "learned" from other people or even God Help Us, from marriage books or seminars.  For the record I only went to one seminar and was forced into it.  We were on staff and there was no way out of it.  ( Well today I'd get out of it, but back then I was nicer)  Jon used to read Christian  books on marriage, I didn't except for one that was about sex LOL   Even years ago I knew to laugh and ignore "self help" books, Christian or not, that is one thing I do not need!  

As our lives got "real", we began to realize a few things.  There is not a self help book out there that can make you feel better when life is crashing down.  All those silly little "marriage tips" that you're given in classes or hear in seminars are usually pretty stupid & empty, when LIFE starts happening.  We learned we had to make OUR own way, not listen to others but cling to each other. 

Over 90% of families with special needs kids end up divorcing.....when I first heard that, I was floored.  Now over the years I've seen that happen time and again.  For us, it's drawn us closer than we ever dreamed.  There were a number of years our marriage was quite shaky.  We probably would have divorced because of the social pressure but.....   However we grew past that and then when we were given Sam almost 11 years ago, we both realized we'd better hang on tight cause the ride just got bumpy! 

I'm not writing all of this to tell you what a perfect marriage we have LOL- we still fuss and he swears he is the ONLY pastor that gets the "Italian salute"  from his wife (I'm sure he is NOT)   But I do want to encourage you to hang in there if you're going through a hard time in your marriage.

And another thing do NOT envy another person's marriage!  You do NOT know what they've gone through to get to the point they are at NOR do you know what they might be asked to go through in the future.  I can think of several couples I've looked at in envy and everyone of them has ended up going through some deep waters and most are divorced now.  You don't see what actually happens in a marriage. 

Well guess I'm giving marriage advice!  But my advice is work it out between the two of you, don't think you have to be someone else or perfect.

If you are single....and want to be married....  There is NO perfect person.  If you are a Christian -I'd advise to pray and ask God to send you someone and then go about your business.  Don't try to "make" someone be God's will for your life.  I can say that cause I tried that and it didn't work!!!!   So glad I waited. 

How do you KNOW it's the right one?  I haven't the foggiest!  LOL  I just kind of jumped in with Jon and I'm thankful he was the right one for me!   One thing was we were BOTH 100% doing what God wanted us to do in ministry-neither one of us was sitting around waiting to do things because we were single.  I liked that about him and he liked that about me.


Well that is enough marriage advice from me!

I'm going to read one of my new favorite authors John Grisham.  I'm readying "The Chamber".  I've liked every book of us I've read thus far.  I totally get into the characters and can "see" it.  Love books like that.  I'm not usually a fan of male authors but Grisham is different.  In fact his book "The Testament" could be sold in a Christian bookstore, what a story of redemption.   BTW I'm not into Christian novels at all.  The only ones I slightly liked were the Frank Peretti's set "This Present Darkness" and "Piercing the Darkness"  I think I liked them cause they reminded me of my crazy hometown.  Not quite sure I believe the "theology" of the books though. 

Hope you all have a great weekend!!!




Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Sarah Covenant House- India

Today I have a ministry to share about that I'm really JUST learning about but it has been around for a while!   Sarah Covenant House  in India http://schindia.com/ 

Here is their FB page
https://www.facebook.com/schindia

And this is one of the moms
http://www.onetinystarfish.blogspot.com/

She lives and works in a home there.  She has followed our story and one of their new children in the home is named after our Selah:) Selah, Charlotte and Chloe all need sponsors....  Charlotte and Chloe are both blind and remind me of my Sarah. 

Somehow I had missed out on this wonderful ministry!  I'm so excited that I read about it and now am learning more.  What a great thing to be involved with!!!!!   Can I encourage you to help sponser a child???

http://schindia.com/children/children-young-adults-need-sponsorship/
Charlotte and Chloe are on here, Selah is not on here yet but will be added soon.
Such a great way to do something for an orphaned child if you are not in a place to adopt!



This is their vision!
Throughout the world there are people who feel that children with special needs lack worth, or that there is a shame in being differently abled.
Jesus sees them so much differently. He said that the first shall be last and the last shall be first (Matthew 19:30). These children, who aren’t valued by society, are the very ones He wants to lavish with His deep and unending perfect love. We want to be part of that!
The vision for Sarah’s Covenant Homes is to provide our children with the next-best thing to a traditional family. Love, growth, laughter, nurture, and more love!
Over 100 children have been referred to us by the government, having been abandoned or relinquished by their families. Most of them arrive in extremely weak condition, with illnesses, anemia, and medical/surgical needs. We provide them with medical care, education, physiotherapy, good nutrition & supplements, and lots of love.
In the future, we see a large campus that contains apartment units where SCH kids are fostered in family units with lots of one-on-one interaction and therapies. A mini-hospital, kitchen, chapel/prayer room, school rooms, therapy rooms, laundry and playgrounds will all be central and shared for a warm community feel. We are committed to our children and young adults—kids won’t “age out” of SCH and be sent to an institution or released to fend for themselves. But because we know that we can never replace a loving biological or adoptive family, our prayer and desire is that many of our children would eventually be placed in wonderful adoptive families. For those who will be adopted, SCH will be a place where they can get well and thrive physically and in every other way and learn that they are valuable and worthy of love.




Here are some questions and answers about Sarah Covenant Houses



01) In a nutshell, can you describe SCH and the vision for it?
  • Children with developmental disabilities and neurological special needs are the most likely to be abandoned and least likely to be adopted children in India. The Lord told me, “Feed My lambs.” I find these overlooked and undernourished (in all senses) lambs languishing in institutional orphanages or hospitals, and bring them home, providing them with love, education, therapy, medical & surgical care, and LIFE in a family-style environment.
02)  Who are you?
  • Sarah Rebbavarapu founded Sarah’s Covenant Homes in 2009.  Sarah is an American woman married to James Rebbavarapu, an Indian citizen. They have been married for 19 years and together run Indian Christian Ministries, an NGO (Non-governmental Organization) in Andhra Pradesh India.  With the recent addition of their twins they now have four daughters and a son and have lived in India as a family since late 2000. Sarah can be reached at sarah@schindia.com!
03)  Are the names used on the blog the children’s real names?
  • No, they are not the children’s official names. We use nicknames on the internet to protect the children’s privacy. Click here for more info about how and why we select the names.
04)  Are you an adoption placement agency? Can I adopt a child through you?
  • We are not permitted by the state government to place our children for adoption, either in India or abroad. These children are wards of the government, though, and the government is the state’s only recognized placement agency, so they are able to place abandoned children with and without special needs (including, if they so choose, our SCH children) at their discretion. To adopt an Andhra child, an Indian family settled in India should approach the state government Women Development & Child Welfare Department Adoption section. Foreign married couples or single ladies may adopt children for whom families in India cannot be found, but only through a licensed placement agency in your home country.
05)  What types of special needs do your children have?
  • The vast majority of our children have neurological special needs: epilepsy, cerebral palsy, hemiplegia, cognitive challenges, hydrocephalus, brain damage, autism etc. or combinations of the above. Many also have orthopedic challenges, about ten are blind, and two have hearing loss.
06)  How many children do you have?
  • As of July 2014 SCH is currently home to 130 incredible children.
07)  Do you serve families who are seeking residential care for their special children?
  • At this time, the children we serve are all abandoned children whose family backgrounds are unknown or children whose parents relinquished them to the state. We also have three adults with various challenges who have no family support.
08)  What services do you provide for the children?
  • We provide physical therapy, early intervention, nursing care, and special education on-site six days per week. Thirty of our children attend mainstream private schools. We are currently seeking a full-time speech therapist, a physical education teacher, vocational trainer, and an occupational therapist.
09)  How are you funded?
  • We are funded entirely through donations. We invite partnership from individuals, businesses, foundations, churches, etc. in India and around the world! At this time, we do not have any committed support from foundations or organizations–please do consider getting involved personally and also helping us to connect with individuals and organizations that might be interested in working together with us for the sake of the children.
10)  How much does PayPal take out of a gift I send online to Sarah’s Covenant Homes?
  • They take approximately 3% of the gift, plus $0.30 per transaction.
11)  Can I give via PayPal if I don’t live in America, If I don’t have a PayPal account?
  • Yes to both. All you need is a major internationally recognized credit card.
12)  Where does a PayPal donation to SCH actually go?
  • The entirety of the donation (minus PayPal fees) goes directly to us via Sarah’s Covenant Homes, a 501(c) 3 Montana-based nonprofit organizations (also called “India’s Hope”). The US nonprofit wires the donated funds to us in India. The local bank waives wiring charges as a way to bless our work, so that makes your gift to help the children stretch even further.
13)  I’d like to send a check. Where should I mail it?
  • Checks made out to “Sarah’s Covenant Homes” can be mailed to:
Sarah’s Covenant Homes
P.O. Box 368
Chinook, MT 59523 U.S.A.


14)  Which way do you prefer that we give?
  • This is probably the most frequently asked question. To be honest, I’m just thrilled that you want to give and am happy if you give in the way that’s most convenient for you. I personally don’t give to many organizations that I can’t give to online, so I certainly understand if that’s how you prefer to give as well. Some organizations give you the option of adding a little bit to cover the PayPal fees so that the intended amount all gets there–I tend to do that whether they ask or not. PayPal’s pretty fast, and they really don’t take that much out of the gift anyway, though–it’s worth it because of the convenience to donors.The absolute most economical way to give is to mail a check to Sarah’s Covenant Homes in the USA (see mailing address question above)–almost nothing gets taken out of it. This may be the best way to give large donations.Our US nonprofit is great in that they’ll change their regular wiring date to accommodate our needs. If we need money fast for an unforeseen emergency or need, they’ll wire the money that day.
15)  How much overhead does SCH (the US nonprofit) have?
  • It’s a very tiny amount. Sarah’s Covenant Homes is run by volunteers at this point and takes out of donations only what is needed to pay for one internet and phone connection and a few supplies such as printer ink, paper, postage etc. A lot of these expenses are borne personally by those involved as well–it’s a sacrificial work in which we’re all personally invested.
16)  Is the US nonprofit a foundation or endowment?
  • No, they do not have any large fund from which they make donations–they connect the project and supporters.
17)  Are donations made via Sarah’s Covenant Homes/India’s Hope tax-deductible in America?
  • Yes, donations to SCH can be made through our 501(c) 3 nonprofit organization in the US. The organization’s registered name is India’s Hope, and it also has official IRS permission to do business as (“DBA”) “Sarah’s Covenant Homes” and receive donations made out to “Sarah’s Covenant Homes” or “SCH.” (Contact us if you need a copy of the DBA registration).  Donations made through the US nonprofit are sent directly to our organization in India designated for the children, and are tax-deductible for US donors.  You will receive a receipt for your donation.
18)  How can a Canadian citizen donate and receive a tax deduction?
  • A wonderful Canadian friend would like to register SCH as a nonprofit in Canada.  She is just in the beginning stages of the process. Right now, donations can be made via Sarah’s Covenant Homes in Montana, but it won’t qualify for a tax deduction–I’m sorry about that! If you would like to be part of making SCH Canada happen, please write us! sarah@icmin.org
19)  I live in India. How can I best donate to your organization?
  • Here are our bank details for ICM’s Sarah’s Covenant Homes:Bank Name: Federal Bank
    Ongole Branch

    Branch code: FDRL 000 1351

    Account Number: 13510100051559

    Account Name: ICM
20)  What our others ways I can donate to SCH?
  • We are also very thankful for gifts in kind like children’s clothing, shoes, bed sheets, toothbrushes & paste, combs, etc. and would welcome donated services such as from medical and dental professionals, orthopedists, carpenters, welders, painters, etc.
21)  I’m from a country other than the ones you mentioned. What should I do?
  • That’s wonderful. You can donate in any currency via PayPal in any currency using an internationally recognized credit card. Or, if you’d like to make a very large donation and prefer not to use PayPal or send a check to the US address, please contact me at sarah@icmin.org for details on how to give via Western Union or bank wire.
22)  Is Sarah’s Covenant Homes a registered charity in India with permission to receive foreign funds?
  • Sarah’s Covenant Homes is one “project” (for lack of a better word–it’s so much more) of India Christian Ministries, an indigenous registered charity directed by James Rebbavarapu, an Indian minister. India Christian Ministries (ICM) is registered with the FCRA (Foreign Contributions Registration Act) and is permitted to receive foreign funds.
23)  How much of what I donate for SCH goes to ICM administration or other ICM projects?
  • Three percent is retained by ICM to help cover things like maintaining of registrations, hiring accounting staff, auditing, etc. for all programs. Ninety-seven percent of donations for SCH are deposited immediately and directly in the account (SCH Hyderabad or SCH Ongole) to which they are designated by the donor (or by Sarah, in the case of general donations according to need).
24)  Can your children be sponsored?
  • YES! Currently we do have several children being sponsored.  Our cost is approximately $200-$300 per month per child.  This is excluding any additional surgeries or private schooling. Educational sponsorships for those children who attend mainstream private schools are also much-needed and appreciated!  To sponsor a child, visit the “Children in Need of Sponsors” gallery and click on a child’s photo. On the child’s page, you will find a paypal link where you can set up a monthly sponsorship. Not a paypal member? That is okay because you can sign in as a guest. And if you have any more sponsorship questions, you can email us directly at schusa@icmin.org.
25)  Can I set up a recurring donation to be made automatically from my bank account or credit card?
  • Yes! It’s a wonderfully easy way to give and it gives us such peace to know that we can count on a particular amount monthly. I can generate a customized PayPal link for you in about five minutes. Drop an email to SCHusa@icmin.org and let me know the amount you’d like to give monthly and the designation, and I will email you the link right away. You can stop it anytime via your own PayPal account if the need should arise.
26)  How are the volunteer staff members compensated at Sarah’s Covenant Homes?
  • We are all personal givers to SCH.  None of our volunteers draw a salary from ICM, or Sarah’s Covenant Homes. Occasionally someone designates a gift for staff members, and the US nonprofit honors their wishes and deposits that into a personal account.  Our volunteer staff is entirely responsible for raising their own support to meet their financial needs.
27)  What if I cannot afford $200.00 a month to sponsor a child?
  • That is fine.  We have several children that have multiple sponsors.  Sometime 2 to 3 or more families or individuals come together to take care of one child.
28)  Can I communicate with my sponsored child?
  • At this time we don’t have a reliable way of facilitating two-way communication from the children.  Several of our children are nonverbal and/or would have difficulty even understanding the concept of a sponsor, but of course their need for a sponsor is just as crucial, so we hope you would not be dissuaded by that.
29)  What types of updates can I expect regarding my sponsored child?
  • We are currently working on continuing to strengthen our updates and information regarding our children.  With the addition of some new long-term staff members as well as a redesigned website we hope to make large strides and leaps in this area.  Right now so many of the children have come to us with such serious needs that our attention has been primarily focused on their care and getting them out of danger.  We provide four email updates per year to each sponsor, about their specific child.
30)  I’d like to help, but can’t commit to a monthly sponsorship at this time. What other options are there?
  • In addition to monthly child sponsorship, we have many ongoing needs. Several of our children need surgeries, and we need one-time gifts to help us do this. We also love to have people come and volunteer. Spreading the word about us via your blog, your Facebook page, or your e-mail list helps SO much as well,


Wow lots of info but I think it is so important for you to get to know this organization like I have!  Please give if you can! 


Tuesday, January 27, 2015

The Shepherd's Crook Ministry

Sunday we were blessed to have The Shepherd's Crook Ministry and its founders Scott and Kathy Rosenow with us. TSC is a ministry that has been around for awhile and has a spotless reputation.  In 2006 they featured Shad, as a hard to place orphan.  I got to know them through his adoption and have appreciated them ever since.  Scott and Kathy live what they preach, having adopted 17 children from about 6 different nations.  All of their children were "hard to place" either because of a special need or being an older child. 

Here is their FB page
https://www.facebook.com/tscorphans

Here is Kathy's blog
http://myfrontporchlookingin.com/2015/01/27/tampa-trip-continues/
Love this blog since it mentions us, my friend Angie and my friend Jan- They ministered at each of their churches this weekend and we are all contacted now for many years....

And this is their website
http://www.theshepherdscrook.org/

I urge you to consider giving to this wonderful ministry.  After hearing them speak, I am reminded again of the importance of adoption and the beauty of it!!!  They NOT only help children to get adopted but help the ones left behind.  I'm just blown away by their personal story and how God has led them thus far.




Kathy and Scott sharing



 

The kids singing




 
All of them wanted to meet Selah since they've prayed for her for so long



 


Jaden kept calling Shad "Papa"  Shad LOVED it!  He sat with him and talked with him all through lunch. 

We were honored to have them come and share about their lives with us.  These are the people I admire.  They make a real difference in the world and live what they talk about.  Again I encourage you to go to their sites and read about them.  Support The Shepherd's Crook if you can!!!!   Pray for them that God will open doors so they can help more children. 


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On a personal front.....

The house is moving right along.  We are still waiting on the windows where ever they are in the world....hopefully they will come in tomorrow!  Today we went by to meet a group of new volunteers who are working on the house.  Sarah was a bit upset as they were cutting the siding and the noise drove her crazy.  Steve was carrying her around.  When Sarah gets nervous she pats us on our back, Steve said he probably has a bruise from being "patted" on the same spot for about 20 minutes! 

Well my research about redoing our new van turned up a lot of issues.  I finally got a clear answer that a Kia can NOT be made handicapped accessible.  So as I began to look at trading in the van for one that could be refitted I found out that it costs $15,000 to remodel a van.  We have looked at some handicapped accessible with the idea of trading the Kia in BUT the lowest price we found was about $20,000 for a 12 year old van.  I'm very disappointed.  The doctor and company had bought this van before discussing it with us as a wonderful surprise and we so appreciate it.  After I found out it was a Kia, I knew that we had been told that our Kia could not be refitted when we first brought Selah home.  Then we were told it might be possible with an older van but after all of that it's not.  We couldn't have afforded it anyhow.   Right now we are just going to wait for a few months to figure out the best thing to do.  We need to get moved into the house first and get all that paperwork and financing done before we look at trying to finance a van for Selah but it has got to happen.  She is getting too big and it's not safe for her or us to move her back and to and in and out of a wheelchair.  She needs a van that she can be loaded into while still in her wheelchair.  If you would please pray that this will work out for us and soon!!!!!

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Friday, January 23, 2015

Cook-out

Wesley Chapel Toyota is partnering with Habitat for Humanity to help build our home.  They made a video of one of their work days.  It shows the home, complete with a drone fly over :)   Our family was there also.  I can't load it on here but if you go to my Facebook page below you can view it. PLEASE like the FB page too:)  Thanks!

https://www.facebook.com/pages/My-Real-Life-By-Yvonne/1405082996394656


Yesterday we picked up the van that was given to us by Dr  Bonati  of the Bonati Spine Institute.   It's a 2008 Kia Sedona.  Now we are in the process of finding who can make it wheelchair accessible for Selah.  It's funny we have a Kia Sedona that is grey it's a bit newer but everything is about the same in both vans.  We were originally told that our van couldn't be made handicapped accessible but now they have told us a Kia possibly can be modified.  We will have to take out some seats so that's why we couldn't do it with our van as we need every seat!   So I'm researching how we can go about doing it.  Just to have a vehicle that we can fit for Selah is wonderful.  Transporting her is one of the hardest things we do.

 
 
So we ran around getting paperwork done all day (we- as in me and all the kids)  No one got a nap!  Then we went to a cookout with the RV volunteers of Habitat for Humanity.  That was fun, getting to spend time with some of the folks who have worked on our house.  The little ones did much better than I would have though they would have done with all the traveling they'd done. 
 



 
 
 

 
Sarah had a friend feeding her baked beans. 
 
 
 
So these are retired folks who come to Florida (or several southern states) in the winter with their RVs.   They camp out at the HH's RV park and work Monday - Friday.  They are all an amazing bunch of folks.  Some commit to a 2 week time period, some are there for  months.  It's easy to see the friendships that are made and grown as they all work together.  I'd encourage you to get involved in something like this if you like to RV and to help others.  There are lots of sites like this one you can work on and I believe they also do this in the northern states in the summer where RV'ers can live on a site and work for Habitat! 
 
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Totally different subject....
 
I've been asked how we communicate with Sam, Sarah and Selah. 
 
Well Sam says NO- his only word besides Mama and Dada every now and then.  We LOVE when he says NO and we hear his voice.  Since Sam understands some receptive language- what he hears - we can continue asking basic questions like "does Sam want to eat ?"  until he makes his happy sounds - sounds like "wooda wooda" then we know what he wants.  He doesn't understand non concrete ideas like he wouldn't understand "are you in pain?" so that's hard.   It's like communicating with an 18 month old
 
Sarah also has more receptive language skills than what she can express.  If I ask her to come to me, she will scoot over.  If I ask if she wants to eat, she'll clap and/or open her mouth.  She has said Mama a few times but she doesn't say anything else but will parrot back vowel sounds and enjoys that.  She doesn't understand as much as Sam.  So with Sarah it's like communicating with a one year old
 
Selah is like a baby, we can tell by her face expressions and her body if she is upset.  We also have her on a machine that measures her heart rate and her oxygen level.  If her heart rate is high, she is upset. 
 
So basically think back if you have kids, just like you KNEW what your baby wanted, it's basically the same thing for us.  We know them and have learned how to meet their needs by the clues they give us. 
 
So since I've been asked that question a few times lately I thought some of you might be thinking it.