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Friday, May 24, 2013

CRAZY DAY!!!

Good Lord, if yesterday was a quiet day today was a crazy day.....

It started great, got up early, met a friend for a quick breakfast, then rushed back home to pick up Selah, her nurse and Steve.  I'm having very bad neck/shoulder spasms and tightnessagain  so I needed Steve to help get Selah in and out of the van.  It's so hard to move her into and out of the van and to put the thousand pound (small exaggeration) wheelchair in to the van. 

We had the BEST appointment with the pulmologist!  She was just amazing!  She totally got everything and understood the situation.  We have a PLAN to get Selah well, and to maintain her!  And if she does get sick enough to go to the hospital we also have a plan for that!  Thank God!

So the plan is to add the Tobramycin which is an inhaled antibiotic to her meds.  She will be on it for 28 days and then off for 28 days and then back on.  The liquid antibiotic was increased due to Miss Selah now weighing 48 pounds...and the doctor could go up on the med.  So our plan is to see if this will work for her.

Selah is still "off" not well, so hopefully that will work, if not, then the doctor will put Selah in the hospital (not St Joe's but Tampa General) and have a PIC line put in for IV antibiotics and then we can take her home on that and flush out her system.

So either way we are covered and I really liked the energy and how the whole office worked together and were focused on Selah.  I'm so glad our pediatrician sent us there, it was a good call and I really think this will put Selah on the road to recovery AND progress!  She can't be weaned off the trach until she is well enough to pass all the testing.  This doctor feels coming off the trach will be the best thing for her but we have to get her to the point she can do it!

THEN the CRAZINESS began........we got home, and get a phone call from our pharmacy saying that we have to go through a mail order pharmacy for the med.  Honestly I was on the phone from 2pm till 7pm arranging for her medicine.  WELCOME to Obamacare....it is ugly!   During all of this I was interviewing a new nurse to take our day nurse's position AND I get told that our family insurance just denied nursing care for Selah.  Since she has medicaid as a secondary, she'll still get the 24 hour nursing and I've already started the appeal to our insurance and feel confident that she will be reinstated.  Our private insurance has never denied anything until Selah's accident and this is the 2nd time we've had something major denied.  We won the last appeal and I'm sure we will this time too.  The reason we want our insurance to pay is to be honest it pays more than medicaid and of course nursing staff would rather have the private pay than medicaid! 

So all this is going on, I'm trying to get in touch with the doctor ....at times I had phones in both ears, and the nurse was on a phone.... it's Friday afternoon and a long weekend in coming.  We were desperate!   I find out the kind of Tobramycin that was ordered costs $6000 !!!!!!!!   Can you believe that???????   So the pharmacy was forced to make us order from the mail order pharmacy BUT the quickest we could get it for her was Monday or Tuesday.....    So the doctor changed the prescription to the same med but the ONLY difference is we have to draw the med up in a syringe and put it the inhaler ourselves rather than it being pre measured out.....  that brought the price down to our co pay of $7......   a $5993 difference!!!!!!!!!!     CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT???????  (I actually didnt' even pay at the pharmacy, he said he'd straighten it out on Tuesday and between the two insurances, we probably won't owe anything- we didn't last time but even if we owe a co pay....that is nothing compared to the other med!) 

BUT no one had the cheap medicine.....EXCEPT for one wonderful pharmacy in Brandon...an hour drive away....and they closed at 7:30 pm....the doctor found them for us at 7pm.....we drove down there and they stayed opened till 7:45 pm JUST for us!!!!!   THANK YOU BILL'S PHARMACY OF BRANDON ON HWY 60 EAST!!!!!!!!  If you live near that area, give them your business!  What a great group of folks and they were happy to do that for us and so very gracious!!!!    

So......what a crazy day.... but I am thankful at the end of the day, Selah has the medicine that hopefully can clear her out completely and get her well.  So many people helped us today (and a few were not too helpful)   Driving home with the precious medicine on my lap, looking at the beautiful sunset reflected on the high clouds, like only Florida has....I had a very thankful heart...might have had to repent for a couple of things I said today(I keep it real) ....but I was thankful that God worked all this out for Selah today.  I'm not too worried about the nursing appeal, I'm sure that will work out too. 


WHEW!  I feel like I've been racing all day long....thanks for your prayers, despite all the difficulties of today, I do think this will be the change Selah needs to keep her trach clear!  This will make a big difference for her.  She did not have a good night last night, she didn't fall asleep till 5am but no storming but her heart rate fluctuated up and down....that is not a good sign for her.  I feel she is "on the fence" and could go either way.  I think this new medicine and going up on a higher dose on the oral antibiotic will push her over the fence to the WELL side:)  I certainly hope so!!!   It has certainly been a team effort to try and do something to get her well and keep her out of going to the hospital every two weeks!!  Thanks to everyone who helped!

I know I was going to cook and try out some crock pot recipes....well that didn't happen!  We ate tonight thanks to Sonnys BBQ :)   I was also going to post some pics of the new hair cuts...ummm  that didn't happen either....but here is one cute picture of Steve and Sam tonight in the van on our road trip for the medicine....

 
 
$200 came in today for our orphan fund!  So we are at $810 for this month, with only $190 to go to meet the goal of $1000!!!!!!  Please see the sidebar at the top of the blog that tells about our Orphan Ministry and how to give.  This month it is for the little girl we had hoped to go back for but now a friend is adopting her and two other children!   We are so blessed to be able to give towards this!
 
Please keep Selah in prayer!
 
 




3 comments:

  1. Good gracious! You are an amazing woman! Keep fighting. Selah is in my prayers daily. Love your family.

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  2. Yvonne,

    I have been reading your blog for awhile now but have never commented. Sometimes it is the last website/blog I check before I go to bed at night (which is late!! But I also know you post late sometimes too!)

    I like reading your blog for a couple of reasons. I love reading about your kids. I get a glimpse of all their different personalities in all your writings and can see why you wouldn’t want to be anywhere else but where they are all the time. Your beliefs and thoughts about life. You are sincere and I think because of the way you sincerely talk about everyday life and some of the shared beliefs, you are about as real as a Mom as I can relate to.

    I have followed the everyday struggles and joys of seeing Selah come as far as she has in her journey between the day of the accident and now. My heart sank when I heard it in my local news before I ever read your blog. For all the wonderful care she has received in the past many months by the professionals at Strong (which is near where I live) and in FL, I am so glad for you she is now home and receiving the best care from her loving family. She can feel the comforts of home and I think there is healing that takes place in being in the place where she is most comfortable, surrounded moment to moment by the people who love her and will care for her the best. She looks so peaceful and content in all the recent photos you have taken of her. I have been to Strong many times myself, I had two of my three kids there and now go there on a regular basis for treatment for my son, who has autism.

    So glad that you came away with an action plan that you are all comfortable with in the next step of Selah’s care in dealing with this ongoing infection and keeping her home. There must be a lot of relief that you don’t have that uncertainty about how things would go and instead have an action plan of exactly how things will proceed. Glad to see you had an appt. that was very much worth your time after so many that aren’t. Sorry for all the craziness you had to endure trying to get the medication.

    Praying for Selah,
    Jennifer

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  3. I LOVE Bill's Pharmacy. Great people there.

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