Thank you all for all the prayers and well wishes for Sam. He has recovered fully from surgery and we are so very very thankful! I learned of another child with a tumor in roughly the same area as Sam's was, the family is friends with some of my family. That little guy's tumor is malignant and my heart goes out to the family. You can follow him at
Rhet Cooper's miracle as I read his journey, it brings back some of the possibilities that we were given about Sam.
Well to update on the family.... Steve graduated with his Master's in Human Services and is working full time as an assistant TV producer for a government agency. (Broadcast was his BA degree) Steve is also working part time for a church as their media person. Shad graduated from High School (homeschool) 2 years early and is starting college in August in Arizona! He has almost a full scholarship thanks to grants and 4 scholarships he has received! Sam has been doing good.
Selah is doing ok but she has seen an increase in seizures! We re concerned because she had never really had seizures until the last year or so. It's being monitored and she has had some med increases
Sarah who has always been my healthiest and drama free child....has lost that title. Last week at horse back therapy she passed out and fell off her horse. Thankfully the therapist caught her. I did not see it happen, by the time I got to her, she was coming around. We go pretty far out in the country to ride so I drove her to the ER in Tampa rather than call an ambulance, I did't want her to be seen by someone who was not familiar with her situation. There were so many extra things to worry about as I had Shad and Sam with me and they couldn't go in the ER and it was too hot for them to sit outside. Thankfully Steve was able to meet me there and take them home and Jon came afterwards. For the record there was only Sarah and one other child in the whole giant ER! It was unreal and they worked very fast on her. They determined that she had had a seizure as all her bloodwork CT scan and all tests came back normal. It was early morning and she did not have any symptoms of a heat stroke either. She was released ad we went back to see her neurologist (he follows her just because some of her diagnosis come with seizures as a possibility) Her hour long EEG was normal so at this point we are waiting to see if it was a fluke or a real issue. If she has another one she will be admitted for a 24 hour or longer EEG to try and catch one happening.
I will be quite honest, when it happened I was in shock, there was no concerns about her at all, it had been a regular morning....as I was trying to coordinate everything I just lost it. In my heart I was afraid it was a brain tumor because she also had some issues with dragging her feet after we got her up. Some kids from Ukraine end up presenting with various types of tumors because of Chernobyl. On the way down to the hospital I spoke with her neurologist and he ordered everything to rule that out. Thankfully he's known me for about 8 years and knows I don't freak out too much but I was petrified of a tumor. I guess going through what we'd just gone through with Sam has me on edge! Again I'm so grateful that it was no worse than it was!!! So we watch our sweet girl and pray it was just a fluke that will never happen again.
Ironically the week before on our way back from our third day of horse back riding for that week Sarah and I were rear ended. It really didn't mess up my van much but of course it was aggravating and stressful!
So living in Florida we are living our lives but being careful. Our family takes Covid-19 serious (as we take every flu season or outbreak of illness) We have lived in masks at times to protect the little kids, especially Sam when he was younger and so sickly. Even a couple years ago Sam's ANC was down very low and we went on quarantined per our doctor's order. Jon still went to work but he stripped before he came in the house, the kids didn't go anywhere at all and we cleaned all the time. I think I stayed home 8 weeks with him except quick trips to the grocery store alone. So I've done this whole quarantine thingy for years off and on before it was acceptable. But I'm pretty much in the middle of the road about all of this. I have several friends who have had it (a few who are sick with it right now) A close friend of mine lost her grandfather and uncle to it. It's real but we also have to carefully live our lives. While I have wore masks (even back when the authorities told us not to) I do not think it is a good idea to mandate masks. I do like the idea that it is socially acceptable to wear a mask out -mainly because I used to feel stupid and like a drama queen for wearing them when I had to for Sam) And probably masks should be required in doctor's offices and hospitals for ever from now on since that is where the sick folks go.... but some of this crap is getting out of hand!
I've always said be balanced- I've really seen in this past year I am in the middle of the road about so many things that I used to think I was extreme on LOL
So having said that...we went on vacation to the beach last weekend. We took all our own food -most of it cooked and frozen so all I had to do was pop it in the oven. We did not go out to eat once! That is a HUGE accomplishment for me LOL We also did some sandwiches and easy foods Actually I did not even buy a Diet Pepsi LOL! We stayed in an older hotel the
Arvilla it's a mom and pop hotel right on the beach. We got a 1 bedroom suite that had a full kitchen and sleeps 6 ground level. . The hotel door opens right out to the walkway so there were no halls or elevators to contend with. Housecleaning only comes in if you want and the room is empty. They were kind enough to allow us to bring in our dirty towels and bed-sheets and give us fresh ones. I didn't mind that and thought it was a good idea. The beach was amazing even though it was a bit of a walk ( hotel is on the beach but there are sand dunes so it's probably a 700 foot walk to the actual beach. For most folks that would be no issue but we have the little kids so it was a bit of work for us. But we always have that issue. But the beach is sooooooo worth it to me! Check them out and tell them the Clantons recommended them! Maybe they'll give us a discount!
The first day we got there it stormed which I love! After it was safe (maybe) I headed out to the beach. I literally was the only person on the beach! Maybe because I'm stupid but it was amazing! I walked for about 4 miles before others started coming out. But all in all there was not many people, Treasure Island is a family beach so it's never awfully crowded. We've gone there several times and always loved it,
Having two photographers in the family I have an insane amount of pictures to share even cutting down lol so I'm just going to share the first day in this blog. Later I'll share the photo shot we did with the family. I take room pictures before it gets trashed by my family!
The windows were divine!
Down near St John's pass
How is this boy going off to college in two weeks???????
Shad loves photography and videography
Later that night we walked the kids down the paved sidewalk for a couple of miles.
We wished this boardwalk was closer to our hotel
On Friday our hard working oldest son could join us:) I'll share those pictures later. Maybe that will make me blog more! I still can't believe people follow this blog. Thank you for your prayers and support all these years!
