Thursday, August 16, 2012

Update


Selah's heart rate continues to be high and her blood pressure won't stay in the normal range, it goes a bit too high at times. Please pray that this will stabilize quickly! Pray that she will begin to respond on a consistent basis to the neurological tests. We are crying out to God from the depth of our beings for our precious little girl. She has been such a blessing and joy to our lives these past few months, she fit into our family like she had always been with us. We didn't have one major issue with her adjustment and we love our little LaLa. Please ask God to be merciful to our family and to heal our child. Although she has only been with us a few months, she is our child and I can't imagine life without her!

I want to thank Rochester NY for the outpouring of love. We have always loved this city and Strong's hospital since we started coming here five years ago for Sam's corneal implant and follow up visits. We were impressed with the friendliness of the city and everyone we dealt with. We have such a hig regard for Strong's hospital and for all it (and Dr Aquevella ) has done for our son in giving him sight. Now we are being cared for by the awesome staff here and just are amazed at the level of care and concern our children are getting!!! Thank you Strongs!!! And thank you Rochester for opening your hearts to our family!!!!

I have to thank the Ronald McDonald House here in Rochester that has always been a blessing to our family. They happily accommodated our two new girls this year and gave us a wonderful room. Now they have been there even in a greater way for us. We have a room in the hospital itself where we can take a shower and sleep for awhile. I can NOT say enough about the wonderful sweet spirit of the RMH, we've always felt we were so blessed by their kindness and even more so now!!

Thank you all for your prayers, we go through many emotions throughout the day. This is so hard. When we are in Sam's room and he is playing happily, our heasrts are so glad and so thankful, then we go to Selah and our hearts just long to see her back to normal! I have gone through some heartaches in life, but this morning I felt like my heart was actually breaking ...we love our sweet girl so much, it's so hard to see her like this.....

Sam is doing wonderful and is back to normal with no side affects from this. Our heart rejoices for that and we thank God but we need another miracle!!!!

Today we got to meet the main people who rescued the children, what a blessing that was to sit down with them and thank them!

I want to address some things, I guess many folks wonder why two eight year olds would be in a stroller. Both of them are very small for their age as a result of their different special needs/handicaps. Sam has Peter's Anomaly and short stature is one of the characterises of PA. Selah is very small and we do not know yet if that is because of a certain syndrome or was it malnourishment? We do not know but think it must be part of Selah's diagnosis. We have an appointment for Oct for some testing for her. Tehy both walk, but slowly and don't enjoy walking long distances. So they were enjoying a wonderful walk with their daddy when this happened.

Also my husband glanced at his phone to check the time as we were taking another family to the airport from RMH to catch thier flight home and he didn't want to be late getting back to the RMH. He was not texting as some have suggested. He really doesn't text, just really learned how a couple of weeks ago and hasn't texted since. He just simply looked at the times and in that split second, the heavy stroller began to roll. It was an accident and my husband is devastated...please pray for him as he deals with this.

We are an overly cautious family. We have kept the children in car seats although they are past the age in our state, we never have live din a house with a pool and refused to even look at them when we were in the market, we even empty the baby pool as soon as we are done with it so it doesn't sit on our patio we don't let our kids ride with teenagers, We wear seat belts and check our fire alarms and keep a fire exighuisher right by our bedroom door at night...we do everything we possibly can to keep our family safe. What I am saying if something can happen to us, it can happen to anyone...so be as careful as you can with your children!!!

And cherish the moment, every moment with your family!!! I am so sorry we didn't spend much time with Selah on her birthday. but we were at the hospital from 5:30 am to 4 pm and just had to go to bed early along with the kids who were so tired!!! We had planned on doing something special on Wednesday night but didn't get the chance.. So cherish each moment with your children. Take time for each one every day.... Love them, we are not promised tomorrow! There is NOTHING in this world more important to me than my children, and there are no other folks Id rather be with than them and my husband. Dont let any petty thing come between you and a loved one, Life is too fragile. I'm thankful that Selah knows we love her and I know she loved us and we had won her love and trust...

So again please pray for our Selah!!! So many people are praying...one friend wrote me that she knows God is hearing Selah's name continuously coming up to His throne....thank you so much for the prayers...

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  1. i am praying for you and our sweet Selah.

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  2. I wanted to pass along kind wishes- I will pray for your Selah and the whole family. I'm so sorry that things have been said/written that made you feel the need to explain the situation of that day-please know there are many who simply feel for you all with nothing but compassion. I will ask the youngsters I am teaching at vbs to pray as well. God bless!

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  3. I am in tears for you and am praying in Jesus name that she be healed. You sound like wonderful parents, and I am so incredibly sorry for this accident. I am happy that little Selah is so, so loved and am praying that you get her "back." All the way. May God's grace hold you and his Spirit strengthen and comfort you right now.
    In Christ's love,
    April Brown

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  4. I followed the link from Julia's blog to yours, so this is the first time I have visited your blog. I will be praying for dear little Selah and asking our Father to miraculously heal her. I pray for you too, that you will receive His peace and assurance. ~ Tharen

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  5. Oh Yvonne, we've been praying like mad here!!! Shedding lots of tears, stalking FB waiting for your next update and praying some more. I know Sarah has sent you some comments left on her blog. That post has had over 4000 views in just over 24 hrs!! SOOO many people are praying for Selah and ALL of you. I just can't imagine what you are all going through.

    I can totally understand how a double stroller can just get rolling. They are heavy! If that front wheel was turned just a bit and if one of the kids just leaned forward or just bounced a bit...I can totally understand. I'm specifically praying for Jon too.

    We continue to lift up Selah to His mighty throne! Love to you all!

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  6. Oh Yvonne, I am so sorry for everything you're going through right now, and then you have to deal with this, to put the misinformation and speculation at an end. I hope you and Jon are getting some rest; please try to if you can. You do have so much support behind you, so many people praying for Selah's condition to improve, for peace in Jon's heart, and strength for you and your family. Hold onto the faith that Selah will pull through... I believe miracles can happen through the power of love and prayer, and Selah (and your entire family) have so much of both coming from all over the world right now!

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  7. Yvonne,
    I am praying for your precious daughter and family.
    Karen

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  8. Thanks for sharing. Praying for your precious girl to have full recovery. I cried a little on the way home from work this morning thinking about what it must be like for you all. I know people can be so cruel with blame but I know anyone can have an accident in the blink of an eye, reach for something and have a wreck or whatever. I hope and pray your husband will not be to hard on himself for this. I know he is a good dad and would do anything for them or he wouldn't have jumped in so quick with no thought for his own safety. They could have easily all drowned.
    Yes, it could be any one of us. Prayers for peace, comfort and healing during this time.

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  9. I found out about your family from a friend who found her adopted children through Reece's Rainbow. There are a lot of people all over who are praying for your family. I am originally from Wesley Chapel (suburb of Zephyrhills) but am now living in Illinois. Friends in Florida, Texas, and Illinois are sending prayers your way. I will continue to pray.
    Sincerely, Samantha

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  10. You are in my prayers! I'm so sorry if people are making rude comments or suggestions about what happened. As a parent I KNOW that things can happen in a SPLIT second. I will be praying for your husband; I cannot imagine his heartache for this!!! Come on little girl, pull through!!!

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  11. Many many prayers coming from portland Oregon. Storming the heavens that God heals your sweet girl!

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  12. Praying for Selah, for her full recovery, and for peace for you all.

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  13. Praying for Selah, for her full recovery, and for peace for you all.

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  14. Praying for Selah, for her full recovery, and for peace for you all.

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  15. Praying, praying, praying for you, for the Lord to show off His great power and bring about a full recovery for your little girl. Praying for peace for your husband's heart, kindness from others, and comfort for all of you through a fear and hurt I don't want to try to imagine. I don't know you except through your blog, but my heart just hurts for you, and want you to know you are and will continue to be in my prayers.

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  16. I can't even remember now whose link I followed to your story. A dear friend on fb shared the prayer request for Selah and Sam. I've been praying. My heart breaks for y'all. Asking God to bring Selah back to your family "whole" again. Asking Him to comfort each one of you and give you strength as you take this moment by moment. And asking God to give your husband a special comfort and protection to ease his hurt.
    Thank you for the wise words, the reminder to cherish the time we have with our spouse and children. It can never be said enough.
    God bless you.
    May God be with you.

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  17. Thank you for that detailed update. We are begging prayers for you guys. Bringing each one of you before the throne. One step at a time He will carry you through.

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  18. oh im so very sorry for what you are going through...i have an 8 and 9 year old with cp and they both ride in stroller or w/c and it could have happened to anyone in that situation.

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  19. I love you all with every fiber of my being. I'm praying for all of you, especially Selah and Jon, while he deals with the heartbreak.

    Jon, please do not blame yourself. It was a freak accident and we do not fault you. We love and cherish you and pray for you as you try to heal from this. I can't even imagine how much your heart must be hurting. Just close your eyes and imagine the room full of all the people who are praying for you and Selah. That room is packed with people who love and support you.

    We are here for you Yvonne and family, we love you!!! The entire Reece's Rainbow group is praying!

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  20. Please know you are in my prayers, you are hurting but and going through so much but still taking the time to explain. My heart is so heavy for you and want you to know that we care. Hugs Sister from the Sousa-Brown Family in NC (RR family)

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  21. Praying hard for your family.
    From Juli in Japan.

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  22. Continuing to pray for Selah, dad, mom, Sam, and the rest of your family, as you all are heavy on my heart!

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  23. Continuing to pray for Selah, dad, mom, Sam, and the rest of your family, as you all are heavy on my heart!

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  24. We are praying here for you all and for Selah! We read about the accident from Linny's blog yesterday. Lifting you to the Father often in Indiana.

    janet, kevin, ted, sophia, philip, and elijah

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  25. I know people that are both praying and fasting for Selah. She is indeed be lifted up continually. We love you though we have never met and will continue to pray for your family and to check in and see how she's doing. Be strong and courageous for the Lord is with you!

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  26. We know of people who are both fasting and praying for Selah and that she is indeed being lifted to the Lord continually. We will continue to pray for her healing and for your family throughout the day until we hear that she is better. Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you!

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  27. continuing in prayer for your and your precious girl and for your husband. We cannot imagine the depth of your struggle, but we can pray and fast.

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  28. Praying for you and your sweet Selah! The Lord is your strength and your shield.

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  29. Thank you for giving us that update. We have been thinking of and praying for your family since we heard about it. Praying to the One who knows your sweet daughter perfectly, is all powerful and loving, and hears the prayers being lifted up on her behalf.

    "In His hand is the life of every creature and the breath of all mankind." Job 12:10

    Praying He will give her abundant life and continue to draw you and your husband and children close to HIm and each other.

    love, the Adamsons

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  30. Praying for you and your sweet Selah! The Lord is your strength and your song.

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  31. Yvonne my husband wanted me to also add that we, having many children including 3 special needs kids we adopted, totally understand that freak accidents happen that you can't anticipate or control, and how devastating that is. We also know what its like to have children with "special needs" as you shared about your kids in strollers....we have a 6 and 6 1/2 year old in strollers (and likely for sometime) and one in a crib as that is what they need with their disability too. Praying that God will help others to be compassionate and that God will give you and your husband and family His peace and rest in His Sovereinty.

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  32. Matthew 18:19-20 Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them."
    So many are standing in agreement for healing for Selah, healing for Sam, and healing for Jon! Peace be with all of your family as you lean on God and trust in his word!!

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  33. You don't know me, but I am a sister-in-law to someone that knows you quite well. We are praying for you from Iowa and I am very saddened to see that you are watching your daughter fight the fight of her life, but you are feeling like you have to defend yourselves. Of course, they were in a stroller and if anyone knows you, then they will know that and understand the reason! You are amazing, loving, safe parents and I pray that God will heal your hearts and that a complete miracle happens for your precious Selah! Praying that your entire family feels encompassed by all the prayers going up for you all! Suzie, Kevin, Lexie, Keegan and Ella, Iowa♥

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  34. Selah and your family are in my prayers constantly!

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  35. Have not had you off my mind since i heard. We are praying for you all here!! praying for complete healing for Selah.

    I don't know how to express the way i feel for Jon. my heart breaks to think how scared he must have been.

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  36. We are praying for your family!

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  37. Yvonne, your whole family is in our thoughts. Thank you for the update -- so scary how fast accidents can happen! Selah is so loved!

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  38. Wanted to let you know that your sweet daughter is being lifted up in prayer by so many people that you don't even know -- this request is going out over Facebook. We hope and pray that God will heal Selah.

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  39. Standing in prayer for sweet Selah and your family!

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  40. Continuing to pray for your healing and specifically, little Selah's.

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  41. I am so sorry if any one has raised any inference that there was any negligence involved. {People can be so stinkin' cruel. How dare they!}

    People like you folks {and us, and so many others} don't go to the lengths gone {expense, travel, time, lifelong commitment of care needed, surgical needs on the opposite side of the country} to bring home multiple special needs kids {knowing that they will be "lifers", as we call some of our treasures in our home} with the half-hearted intention of parenting! Oh.my.gracious.

    Tragic accidents can occur without a second of warning to anyone. I pray God will comfort your husband's heart. He is an awesome dad, no doubt! And men like him {willing to adopt SN} are a rare breed and I bet he and my husband {who senior pastored for 20 years} would be great friends.

    We continue to contend before the throne for Selah's miraculous healing. As well as praying for Sam's continued healing and peace for your family. So thankful that you have had an outpouring of love and support from those in the area. May God's Holy Spirit minister deeply to your inner being. He who promised, is faithful.

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  42. My friend Mandy is asking for prayer for your family- I've been reading about the accident and my heart breaks for Jon and your kids. As for the people saying he was texting - I can see you are defending and denying - if this continues to be a sore spot - most phone providers can provide you with a detailed time stamp on calls and texts done that day so that you can clearly show he wasn't texting - that might give you a little peace of mind - but really the people that are saying that are not your friends - a true friend stands by your side not questioning -

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  43. Praying for you in Indiana. Specifically praying for Selah and that the Lord will do a miracle! Also keeping Jon in my thoughts and prayers, I can't imagine his pain. Accidents happen and we don't understand why, but he did everything he could and more! Praying the Lord gives him peace.

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  44. Prayers for your family...for Selah and your husband...you....the other kids. Things happen- we can be so diligent then in a blink of an eye... But, He knows where your hearts are...and so do so many around you judging from the outpouring of support. Prayers for endurance through this...and healing for all who need it.

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  45. Praying for a miracle for your beautiful Selah!

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  46. Continued prayers for sweet Selah and your entire family. We are believing for a miracle!

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  47. Still praying! Wrote Selah's name on my hand to remind me. I will continue to share requests for prayer for your entire family. May you feel our Father's love as a warm hug. <3

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  48. Praying for your precious Selah and your whole family during this terribly hard time. May God comfort you.

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  49. I am praying for Selah, and for Jon, and your whole family. I'm so sorry for your family having to go through what has happened.

    Lisa in Texas

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  50. My prayers go up for Selah and her whole family. I read about the accident on my s-i-l's FB page; they adopted their little boy at about the same time as you brought your two home. I may not know you, but my heart goes out to you and your family. I haven't stopped thinking about and praying for you all since I first read about the accident. Thank you for keeping us all updated as we pray for a full recovery...as if Selah was my own.

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  51. My prayers go up for Selah and her whole family. I read about the accident on my s-i-l's FB page; they adopted their little boy at about the same time as you brought your two home. I may not know you, but my heart goes out to you and your family. I haven't stopped thinking about and praying for you all since I first read about the accident. Thank you for keeping us all updated as we pray for a full recovery...as if Selah was my own.

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  52. Proverbs 14:26
    Whoever fears the LORD has a secure fortress, and for their children it will be a refuge.

    Please, God, bless this family and restore Selah!
    Prayers from Kanas

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  53. Proverbs 14:26
    Whoever fears the LORD has a secure fortress, and for their children it will be a refuge.

    Please, God, bless this family and restore Selah!

    prayers from Kansas

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  54. My husband and I are praying for you all. We had a farm accident with our adopted son (he's fine now) and know just how fast these things can happen. We ache for you guys. We are praying for little Selah and that God would do the miraculous for her!! You have a beautiful family.
    Julie in Kansas

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  55. Yvonne,

    We have a friend in common --- Jan! She has shared wonderful stories about your family in the past with our bible study group, as well as your current situation. Please know we have joined others in praying for Selah! May Jesus whisper to her to wake up and call out your names. So thankful for the lovely people of Strongs' hospital, the rescuers (!!!!), Ronald McDonald House, and the city of Rochester, who have embraced your family. Special prayers for Jon to replace the unnecessary judgements. God's blessings to your family.

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  56. Praying for you, Selah and your husband. Devastating accident...you're so right - it could happen to any of us. Praise God she is doing better this morning. Praying and sending love your way.

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  57. Hi-- I heard of you from the online adoption community-- praying for healing for Selah and peace for you all.
    KellyL

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  58. Praying for you all, for healing, comfort, and peace.

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  59. praying for your precious family!! Praying specifically for your husband today. It CAN happen to anyone and is a great reminder to cherish every moment!!!

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  60. Praying for your precious family! Praying specifically for your husband today--this is definitely a reminder to cherish every moment!

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  61. Praying for your family and sweet Selah here in Texas. My two Ukrainians are praying, too. I have seen God work many miracles for children in the past few months, and we are crying out for another one! I know you probably have come under much scrutiny. Praying for peace and wisdom. And for God to carry your hearts in His able hand.

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  62. We are praying! I just heard about your family this morning from a friend that has adopted children from the Ukraine...checked out Julia blog and then found yours! OH dear LORD JESUS hear the cries of your people for these precious children and this precious family! with love in Christ,
    the carpenter family
    www.marianaorphanfund.blogspot.com

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  63. Selah and your family are in our prayers. We have followed your family from afar on FB and Sam's story site, as our son also has PA. Our hearts break for you as we pray your family will be blessed with peace and comfort during this time.

    Tiffani, Kien, Mei Li and Jacob Taing

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  64. While my heart is heavy for Selah and Sam and all of your family, I have hope. And, I have Faith! Please, know that you ALL are in my thoughts and prayers. I am a former Pediatric RN and I assure you, with all children, life can change in an instant. Daddy has no fault in this situation. It just happened to be him in that time and place.
    I want to share a link with you. Back in May 2012, 1 year old Truman, the baby of a family with many children, fell into 4 inches of water in a bucket on the g]families back porch. Truman drowned. BUT..He is completely Healed and alive and thriving today. I hope this will give you some hope.

    http://themourofamily.blogspot.com/2012/05/pray.html

    Much Love in our Lord Jesus and Prayers for Healing for Selah, Sam and Daddy's heart. And, for sweet Peace for your Mama's Heart. ~ Jo

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  65. Praying for you guys. Selah has been heavy on my heart. Praying for a miracle!

    From another RR family

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  66. We're praying for Selah to fully recover and for all of you as you go through the horrible anxiety and agony of this waiting time,
    The Godone-Maresca Family

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  67. I am praying for Selah. I just found your page yesterday and was o moved that I went back and read from the beginning of your adoption process with Seth and Sarah. I don't unerstand why people are so quick to judge you. First they judged you, saying you were 'buying' children, when in reality you are saving them. And now they judge your husband, quick to blame him of texting. They make it sound like texing is a sin. I don't understand, instead of using that energy toward negative and judging, they could be positive, uplifting and pray for another young child fighting for her life. Regardless of why the kids were in a stroller, or why he used his phone, it hapenned. I'm sure he is tearing himself up inside because of it. But it can't be changed, so use your negative energy people, say a prayer for this young girl who JUST got a chance at love and life. Love will pull her through, I'm sure. Your familys love, our love for a girl we've never met but pray for, and most importantly, Gods love. He never forgot her in her 8 years of life, so I'm sure He won't forget her now, when she needs Him so much.

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  68. I am praying for Selah. I just found your page yesterday and was o moved that I went back and read from the beginning of your adoption process with Seth and Sarah. I don't unerstand why people are so quick to judge you. First they judged you, saying you were 'buying' children, when in reality you are saving them. And now they judge your husband, quick to blame him of texting. They make it sound like texing is a sin. I don't understand, instead of using that energy toward negative and judging, they could be positive, uplifting and pray for another young child fighting for her life. Regardless of why the kids were in a stroller, or why he used his phone, it hapenned. I'm sure he is tearing himself up inside because of it. But it can't be changed, so use your negative energy people, say a prayer for this young girl who JUST got a chance at love and life. Love will pull her through, I'm sure. Your familys love, our love for a girl we've never met but pray for, and most importantly, Gods love. He never forgot her in her 8 years of life, so I'm sure He won't forget her now, when she needs Him so much.

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  69. I am so sorry for what you are going through and praying for a full recovery for Selah.

    Please don't take it personally if people suggest that somehow this tragedy was a result of something you did. It is a very common psychological response to a horrific accident -- people unconsciously "protect" themselves by trying to think of reasons why someone was at fault, and the accident could not possibly happen to them and their family. No one wants to believe that freak accidents can happen to anyone, but they can, and they do.

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  70. I am so sorry for what you are going through and praying for a full recovery for Selah.

    Please don't take it personally if people suggest that somehow this tragedy was a result of something you did. It is a very common psychological response to a horrific accident -- people unconsciously "protect" themselves by trying to think of reasons why someone was at fault, and the accident could not possibly happen to them and their family. No one wants to believe that freak accidents can happen to anyone, but they can, and they do.

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  72. I don't even know you but my heart has been heavy and aching for you all since learning of the accident yesterday. I will continue to pray for God's mercy for Selah's healing, will thank Him for his grace for Sam, and will ask for peace and comfort for you all...especially for the trauma your husband must be experiencing. The unity of the Spirit is strong and so many are praying for your family!

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  73. I am praying for your precious family as you deal with this accident. Your daughter is on my heart and I am praying that God uses her healing in mighty way. Praying that you will have many healthy years with your beautiful,Selah.

    God Bless you all,
    hollymathewson

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  74. Praying for her complete recovery. Glad to see your update. Though you owe no explanations, I hope the world understands the depth of your love for your children.

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  75. At least she's doing better than yesterday when she had no hope of living!

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  76. Absolutely praying for all of you!

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  77. Prayed for your family all day yesterday. My children prayed, too. Sleep was fitful last night therefore I lifted your names up again and again to our Saviour. I am unabashedly praying for a miracle.







    2 Thessalonians 3:5

    May the Lord direct your hearts to the love of God and to the steadfastness of Christ.






    Romans 15:13

    May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope

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  78. You don't need to explain to anyone! Accidents happen. It happened to me too and like you, I was anal about everything from car seats to baby gates. You are a great parent and I know your husband is devastated as well. PLEASE tell him to talk to someone if he needs to because the guilt (even though he didn't do anything wrong) will eat him up. It took YEARS for me to get over the guilt and accept that it was just a bad accident. I am praying that your little girl is healed, but please know that you do not walk this path alone.

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  79. You don't need to explain to anyone!! It was just an accident and accidents happen to the most careful of parents! I know because it happened to me as well and like you, I was anal about everything from car seats to baby gates. I know your husband is devastated, but please encourage him to talk to someone because the guilt (even though he didn't do anything wrong) will eat him up. It took me years to get over the guilt of my daughter's accident and accept that it was just that....an accident. I am praying for your daughter's healing. Please know you do not walk this path alone!

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  80. Thank you so much for the update! I've prayed for God's healing power for Selah and for her to be carried in his very hands through this.

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  81. We are praying for Selah and you all.
    Kata from Hungary

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  82. Still praying for your family. Will pray extra for your hub who must be devastated!

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  83. Praying for all of you. What an additional burden on your family. Extra prayers for your hub too.

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  84. Our family has been praying hard for a miracle for your family, and peace for your husband. Thanks for updating us.

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  85. As I began to read this I prayed in my heart for the Lord to restore and put back together a very broken man. Lord lift him up! Praying very much for your children as they fight for their lives!

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  86. Yvonne, I'm so sorry that this has happened to your family. I will keep you and your family in my prayers! I know you're husband must be feeling much grief at the momemnt, so I will pray for him as I'm sure this is weighing heavy on his heart. You have rescued this kids and showed them what love is, this is a miracle in itself. I'm so glad that your son is doing much better now. Sending many huggsss your way!

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  87. Oh sweetie, please don't feel the need to defend yourself. So many people are so ignorant and self-righteous when it comes to things like this. As I was reading, I was thinking "what does it matter why the 6 and 7 year olds were in a stroller, and why does it matter whether Your husband was texting, on the phone, checking the time, the weather, Facebook, etc. It Doesn't. What these people who question you don't realize is that there have probably been tons of times they've done something similar and the ONLY difference is that nothing happened while they were looking at their phone. I feel for your husband, just as I did my sister when people were questioning her worth as a mother bc of the drowning accident her 2 year old had. Don't spend another second giving your energy to these people who don't understand and/or are judging your actions. I responded to several of the people who were saying things about my sis, until I realized it wasn't gonna matter. God knows you guys and your hearts and no one else's opinion matters. I am praying for your Selah just as I am for our Rosalie. Your family has tugged at my heart strings. If you have time, you could check out Rosalie's Facebook page, so at least you can know that someone else went through similar problems of BP and heart rate, etc and is stable and improving now 10 weeks later. "please pray for Rosalie" is the name of the page.
    God wrap your arms around this family. Comfort them as you are comforting Selah as her body goes through this ordeal. We trust you and know you can heal Selah just as you have done for our Rosalie. I ask that You keep any evil out of their room and protect their minds from the things that are not of you. I ask that you bring Selah back whole again, for she was perfect just the way you made her. I love you Lord. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

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  88. Praying for Selah and your family right now! Hugs from one mama's heart to another, Grace

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  89. We are praying for Selah and your whole family. May god wrap you all in His peace that passes all understanding.

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  90. Praying for your family, and especially for Selah, for God to heal her and provide a miracle that only He can give.

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  91. Praying for Selah and your beautiful family!! My heart hurts for you and the pain you are experiencing. Praying that God will heal Selah and wrap his comforting arms around each of you.

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  92. The RMH had a room like that in shands hospital where my son had open heart surgery. They are an awesome place to be if you need them. As my husbands work time did not let us stay there we ended up staying in the ICU with our son but they did provide the room with beds and showers and snacks with drinks. I tell everyone that this is a good place to donate time and money.

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  93. We are praying for your family and sweet Selah's full recovery.
    A fellow RR family in Arkansas

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  94. Yvonne you didn't need to explain or defend and I don't think it sounded like you were. This was a beautiful post that just showed how wonderful your heart and family really is. Praying for Salah and all of you.

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  95. Saw a post on FB and I read your posts... I am so sad that this has happened to your precious daughter...It doesn't matter how long she has been your officially from the beginning God has always intended for you to be her mommy!!!! Sending lots of loving thoughts and prayers your way....

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  96. I am so sorry for your pain. You all are in my thoughts. I hate that you had to explain yourself and explain that he was not texting. Hold your babies and enjoy them and keep your heart on them not explanations. ******hugs******

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  97. Sending up prayers for Selah and the whole family. Miracles happen every day, my daughter is proof!! Keep up the faith and don't let negative people let it wavier!! (((hugs)))

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