"Our life maybe a crazy life but it's our life" I'm married to a pastor of a small rural church, who is also the prison chaplain. We have 5 kids, each with their unique story. I love gardening & we all love the outdoors. Our life is not the way we planned it to be, but we are learning to trust God in every area. Come and read about our life as we live it to the fullest!
Thursday, August 16, 2012
Urgent prayer request!!!!!!
"If you've not heard, we've had a terrible accident. Jon took Sam and Selah on a walk on the Erie Canal before lunch today. He stopped for a minute on a level surface, to check the time on his phone & the stroller rolled into the Erie Canal. Jon Clanton jumped into the canal right after them. He was able to hold the stroller up & fought against the current pulling him and the stroller down. ...He couldnt' get the kids' unhooked but was able to pull them up some and evidently got Sam's head up. Someone jumped in and took him out and Jon and another lady pulled up the stroller so they could do rescue breathing on Selah until the EMTs got there. The Erie Canal is very deep, cold, and strong currents...the sides are cement with nothing to hold to... Sam is ok, put is being kept overnight since his body temp went down to 90 degrees. At this point Selah is not expected to live...our hearts are broken. PLEASE PLEASE PRAY FOR SELAH!!! We love her so much and have loved being her parents. We are asking God for mercy! She is on life support, currently she is in a study ( the only hope they could give us) The study is to keep her temp at a certain lower than normal point with the hope that could help. But they still give us no real hope and even if she should live, they feel she won't be "Selah" anymore. Please pray that God will give us a miracle for our little girl!!!!!!!"
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Update on surgery
Picutres ...
Our THREE 8 year olds...Happy Bday Selah
Sam waiting for his exam
Sarah waiting for her exam...
Sarah with 'her daddy
Quick update....
We arrived in Rochester NY on Sunday after a long but safe trip!
Sam and Sarah both had EUAs (exams under anesthesia) today.
Sam's was perfect, everything is just right, five years and one day since the implant!
Sarah's was a bit more complicated. First they couldn't do the implant today because her cornea is smaller than normal and she has to have a custom made implant to fit her eye. Also the sclera (the white of the eye) has some issues. There is concern that it may not be able to support the implant and her eye would be like a deflated tire. Also there was some strange things seen on the ultrasound of her eye near the pupil. Soooooo she will be scheduled for a MRI Wed or Thurs and based on that, they will know how to proceed.
We feel they will attempt the implant next Tuesday despite all of this. The good thing is her eye pressure is normal, the retina and optic nerve are there and in the right places and we KNOW she sees because she reaches for light up toys, up to a foot in front of her. We don't know how good the optic nerve or the retina is because they were looking at it through the cloudy cornea and on the ultrasound.
We love our Dr Aquevella and totally trust him in this decision. Please pray for him to know just what to do to help Sarah, that's his heart desire to give children sight! Pray for Sarah!
I have to admit I'm a bit shocked by this. We've felt that she saw more than Sam did before his implant and thought this would be straightforward but we trust that they are gathering all the info necessary to be prepared for the surgery.
Today was Selah's 8th Bday and we didn't spend much of the day with her but plan on doing something special for her tomorrow. She did get a dolly from us and a lion and a dolly from the Ronald McDonald House. So we now have THREE 8 year olds and think that is pretty neat:)
Thursday, August 9, 2012
Sarah
Next Tuesday Sarah will be getting her corneal implant, the Boston K-Pro! It will give her sight! Now she sees light & shadows but then she she will see much clearer imagines. We don't know exactly how well she will see but based on Sam's success it should be a lot!
So today as we are getting ready to leave, my heart is filled. The first time I saw Sarah's picture I though "oh my God she looks like Sam!" and my second thought was "she needs the corneal implant surgery!" Now 9 months later, it is happening...God is good! I didn't know that first time I looked at her picture that she would become my daughter!!! But God did!!!!
So that leads me to another thought...does God just love Sarah (and Selah) more than He loves those other 150 children living in an adult mental institution in Ukraine? Does He love them (and Shad also) more than the 100 million orphans in the world that He would rescue them and give them a family??? I don't think so....
So WHY were they rescued??????
They were rescued because we swallowed our fears, swallowed our doubts, didn't listen to ALL the many reason why we should NOT go and get them. Oh we had some fears and some doubts and God KNOWS there were many reasons why we of all people should NOT go and get them ...but we went. We obeyed that small voice knowing that one day we will stand before God and give an account of our lives. Will fear, doubt & reasons why not matter on that day???? I don't think so.....
We are NOT saints, we're not trying to work our way into heaven... we don't have a great amount of patience or virtue...we're just ordinary folks living in this world who want to do all we can....
You can do the same thing we did...even if you are single there are countries that allow singles to adopt...Are you poor? LOLOLOL...we are poor in comparison to most of America, but RICH in comparison to most of the world! God provided. No we didn't have $32,000 in savings...our bank only requires $5....LOLOL The God of this Universe stepped in and made this adoption happen. He will do the same for others too...of that I have NO doubt! Are your hands full? Mine were...and are even more so but it is worth it....
I can promise you that if you trust God and step out in faith He will meet you and meet every need. If you adopt an international child you are rescuing a life that has very little hope. We are so blessed here in the USA, you have no idea. We have foster care and while that might not be a perfect system, I can assure you it is a much much better system than anything I have seen or heard of in other countries....
If you are interested in international adoption, write me, I'll be glad to help you ...
So pray for my sweet sweet Sarah! Pray that the surgery is a complete success, I have to admit I am nervous, nervous about her being put under and nervous that something will go wrong...Sam will be put under first for an exam to check his Kpro and then she will go in for the operation, all on the same day. Pray for the hospital because I am a crazy MAMA! Pray for a safe trip for all of us. Our oldest son is having some major issues and may end up with appendicitis as he has pre condition for it. He is ok to travel, but we are having to watch him closely. This is our first road trip with 5 kids, so it should be fun LOL espicially with all the medical drama thrown in!
Thank you all for your prayers for our family in the past and now as we go on this next step!
Friday, July 27, 2012
Just a few more...
Some more pictures:)
Here's our backyard playground and Sarah on her horse! I love the picture of her from the baby orphanage riding on a horse. She had not forgotten how to ride! As soon as I put her on it she shrieked with joy & started riding it:) I've got to get her a bigger horse as her legs are a bit long for this one but she loves it!!!!!
Pictures
Update on Sarah and Selah
We've been home with them for 2 1/2 months and it's been wonderful! We adore these little girls so much!
Both girls have had their evaluations for Physical therapy, Occupational therapy and Speech therapy! They will be starting soon! They each will have 9 hours a week. Sarah also has Vision therapy an hour a week and loves it. At the evaluations it was determind that she only has muscle atrophy and should be walking soon. She is crawling and pulling up and starting to get into everything! We are waiting for a date for her eye surgery. One of the doctor on the team had a family emergency out of the country & it pushed us back but hopefully by next month we will be on the schedule! We are looking forward to getting it done!!!
Both girls are just doing so great. Sarah is a love bug and Selah is reaching out more for love. It is harder for her but it 's very evident that she is bonding as she follows me around the house all day:) She wants to cuddle at night, Sarah loves cuddles ALL the time!
I have most of their appointments with the various specialists set for the fall. We dealt with the most important stuff first. Sarah has a ski condition that we are dealing with & maybe just maybe finding the victory thanks to a new cream!
Just want o tell you all that we couldn't be happier with these sweet girl, they were so meant for our family & bring us much joy! Their transition home has been a breeze & such a sweet time. So thankful to God & to all who helped us bring them home!
Hope you enjoy the pictures from our first beach trip to Honeymoon Island, Sarah LOVED it, but it took Selah awhile to get use to the vastness of the beach.
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