Monday, May 24, 2021

Spring 2021



Easter 21
smallest group picture we've had in many years!
















For years I've felt like our house had a "disjointed' look about it and this was the year I've decided to redo some things.  One of those things was Sam's room.  He sleeps in a hospital bed because of sleep apnea.  But everything needed an update.  I like how it turned out!






Jon and I are continuing to explore new places in Florida.  A few Fridays ago we went to the Anclote River / Tarpon Springs area


Key Vista Nature Park




this is a real Florida beach



There is a tower there











the pier is a little south of the first park Anclote Gulf Park


Then the docks of Tarpon Springs





Our FAVORITE restaurant and bakery



We finished the day at Anclote River Park that has a small beach on it right where the river meets the gulf.   Everything was free except parking at Tarpon Springs and the Greek food!  Actually if you eat at Hellas restaurant they have free parking in the back!




Molly modeling for us




Me and a few of my babies lol




My sweet girls





More backyard pictures








Bruno one of my real rescues.  He came up or was dropped off and looked awful.  I was actually afraid of him because he was so large and feral.  But since I'm the cat whisper somehow I was able to connect with him and he is now the sweetest boy.  I don't' really want to rescue animals, they just come across my unwilling path and I have to take care of them  Sometimes I'm able to find homes for them like a recent cat and her newborn kittens but it's rare when that happens.  


THIS is why I have no garden I'm growing chickens!




This year we went to the annual banquet for Emerald M Therapeutic Riding Stables   It is always a lot of fun and our Sarah was featured again!



A picture with Laurie and Lisa the therapists - we clean up good LOL believe me most of our time spent together is times without make up or dressy clothes 








Sarah's favorite thing HORSE

This video was shown at the Banquet

Sarah's video Please watch this video about Sarah and Emerald M Therapeutic Riding Center  If you ever want to donate to them-it would be a blessing they do so much for so many people!  We are so blessed to be a part of this!!!




Look who is home!  We are so glad to have Shad home after his freshman year in Arizona!



Mother's Day 2021 I have 5 reasons to be happy on this day and I'm so thankful for us all being together




My sweet Sarah




He's a Keeper




So glad to have our boy home!








the One who started it all my bearded baby


my stinker Sam




Sweet Selah She was not enjoying the sun



 


Thursday, May 6, 2021

Prayer Request

 Over the past year I've found out an incredible amount of things regarding my family lineage it's a story for another time  and it will be INTERESTING!  But right now can I ask you to please pray for a family member who is very ill and in the hospital on a vent.  Over the years I've learned God hears our prayers and I'm desperate for God to hear this request to spare my relative's life and bring complete healing!  Thank you for your prayers!!!

Yvonne


Thank you for your prayers unfortunately my relative did not survived this illness.  I'm devastated about the whole situation.   One day I'll share my story when it's appropriate.   My heart is very sad about this loss.  

Sunday, April 11, 2021

Honeymoon Island and Caladesi Island

 Continuing on as your Florida travel guide.....


Our family has gone to Honeymoon Island many times and love it.  The admission is only $4 a person or a carload for $8 there are bathrooms and a restaurant you can even rent umbrellas. It's very nice.  There are trails for walking and miles of beaches.  Read about HONEYMOON ISLAND  Caladesi Island is off its coast and only accessible by boat.  There's a ferry that runs from Honeymoon Island to Caladesi Island and it's only $16 a person.  Read about Caladesi Island  We've been there a few times but a few weeks ago Jon and I were able to work things out so we could go together and we had a wonderful day.  The 20 minute ride over is fantastic we saw dolphins and really enjoyed it both going out and coming back.  There's a restaurant and small store on the island but we brought our own sandwiches fresh from Publix! So after we got there we found a picnic table and ate because we were starving.  















We are Floridians so the water was wayyyyyy too cold for us.  We could barely stand to put our feet in the water but it will warm up soon.  We just wanted to walk and I wanted to take pictures.  It was absolutely a gorgeous day!  It's so rare that we get to go somewhere together with no kids so we felt foot loose and fancy free (at least for 4 or 5 hours lol)  You probably can't relate but just leaving our house with our little people is hard and time consuming.  Taking them to the beach is something we do but it is so much hard work.  So to just go and not have anything to carry but my phone was very nice!  It was relaxing for us and we are going to try and do something once a month this summer.  That's our goal at least!



I never get tired of the beach.






No crowds here we walked for miles





















Still no kids:)




















So this is a great place to spend a day or two if you come to Florida and see the REAL Florida!  There are no hotels on either island or camping but there's a few hotels in Dunedin which is just a few minutes drive.  You'll thank me for this recommendation!  

Sunday, March 28, 2021

A Sam Update

 Thanks for all the comments, the blog layout has changed and for some reason I just got the notification from weeks ago.  I think that is fixed thankfully!


So a Sam update.... March 9th Sam had a MRI under anesthesia   We were allowed to walk him in and Jon helped him go to sleep.  Evidently as soon as we walked out there was an emergency!  Sam has always (more than 50 times) been put under by being masked and then had an IV put in.   They usually do this with younger kids but since Sam is like a toddler they've kept doing it.  Well..... this time he had a reaction, his throat closed up and he quit breathing!!  The doctor had to bag him and they had a very hard time intubating him because of several reasons.   We had NO IDEA this drama was going on....  

At the SAME time or very close to it our oldest son Steve called to check on us.  As we were speaking, I heard him say "oh my God!"  Well he was driving to lunch and was beside a semi hauling roofing materials.  The lumber for the roof (the peak was already put together) was strapped down and a strap broke and flew across his windshield.  Then the prepared roof began falling off the truck right behind him!  By the grace of God it missed his car.  He was shook up.  

After we called him back to tell him what happened with Sam (we didn't know at the time he called us) he told me to check on Shad and tell him to stay in bed for the rest of the day!!! 

Sam had no issue and was released that day after the anestheslogist warned us to never ever let him be put to sleep outside of a hospital and never by mask again.  She was so shook up.  She went back and reviewed his surgery that took place last year there at St Joe's and she was relieved to find she did exactly the same protocol  as her colleague did.  We went home grateful yet again for God sparing our Sam and our Steve!  

Just the Sunday before Jon preached a sermon about how God hears and answers prayer especially prayers we pray for our family.  He shared some things our family has gone through and how God moved mountains.  While I know every prayer is not answered in the way we want it to be-I know I can trust my Lord!  Boy we lived it out that week!  In situations minutes apart at the most we could have lost two of our children.... I'm so very grateful we did not!  So if our family ever comes to your mind say a prayer for us!  

So after ALL of the tests, the trip to NY and that MRI.....Sam's brain is fine, the blood flow is fine.  There were two small things the MRI suggested.  One was a a mild mucosal thickening of the paranasal sinus with mastoid air cells likely.  That could cause some dizziness.  The other was Partial empty sella which is related to the pituitary gland and could cause something like vertigo.....  And even though Sam is better there are days when he is still "off"  He seems to have issues every single January-April....different issues non related but it's something every year.  He also seems to battle anxiety/depression during that time.  

Recently we also discovered that in chromosome 19 he has all parts of it but it's in "disarray"  It's out of order.  Let's say it should read "ABCDEF"  His reads "HXVBZP"  It might be a new marker for Peter's Anomaly!  Sam has what is called "clinical Peter's"  That means his eyes and everything else has all the characteristics  that Peter's Anomaly has but he doesn't have the chromosomal markers.  He is in a study with the University of Wisconsin and this might be a brand new marker for Peter's.  there are a few others who have this and 4 of them also have depression/anxiety occasionally.  And the funny thing is they all have it in the January-April window if I remember correctly!  Of course if we lived up north that could explain it but we live in sunny Florida so they found it interesting.   He also has a deletion in chromosome 4.  

In February Sam turned 17 years old...what a journey it's been for us!  He's had so many things happen to him but he's still here!


His new toys "communicate" with each other...it's a little freaky LOL But as long as they light up and play music he is happy.  

Sam is finished with puberty and according to bone scans & blood work will not grow any taller.  He has to be shaved weekly and we keep his mustache it's so cute to me.  He loves getting shaved, haircuts, pedicures and manicures (yes he goes with me Sarah would never allow a stranger to touch her!)  He LOVES massages and we also go together for them!  He's about 4'10 it's a little hard to measure him because he stands with his knees bent (something we are dealing with)  He weighs about 100 pounds.  He's perfectly proportioned even though he is not on the growth chart for a 17 year old.   

Sam is a blessing, if he had never been born, I'm pretty sure we would have never adopted children with special needs.  His life has changed so many other's lives.  God spoke to me one day on the way to work when I was not in a good place and told me I'd have a son named Sam and he would change my life.  I had NO EARTHLY idea how true that was going to be!  He changed the whole course of my life and that is not exaggeration!  I love him so much and at the same time I worry so much about him.  Sam has given me plenty to worry about over the years.  But as I reflect back I am so glad I have had the honor of being his mom!

Saturday, March 27, 2021

Columbian Restaurant Ybor City and Lettuce Lake Park

 Living in Florida there is so much more to offer than theme parks!  Let me introduce you to a couple of fun cheap places that are amazing!


The Columbian Restaurant has become my favorite restaurant.  I'd always wanted to go there but thought it was too expensive.  But if you go for lunch you can get meals as low as $12   The Columbian Restaurant is located in Ybor City (part of old Tampa) It opened in 1905 and is Florida's oldest restaurant and the world's largest Spanish restaurant with 1,700 seats  There are 15 dining rooms and my goal is to eat in everyone of them.  I've only eaten in three so far!    Their 1905 salad is so good-I crave it.  They have an affordable lunch menu and the food is so good.  You can even ask for a tour of the restaurant it is very informative and you'll get to see the inner working.  With it being in the Ybor area you can take a stroll and look around (you might see a bit more than you bargained on the weekend or nights LOL  But it is very interesting.  You can also catch the FREE trolley and ride around Tampa from Ybor City.  We've not done that yet but plan to soon.  


 Read about it  here


My buddy in crime my college roommate we like to do day trips because of our schedules 









the patio


















the patio











The wine cellar I can truthfully say I'd never been in one before


the was the original restaurant 



















Lettuce Lake Park is in Tampa near the northeast side.  It's not too far from Busch Gardens but much cheaper....$2 a person but bring cash they don't take cards!  
There's all kinds of playgrounds and places to eat, you can rent a kayak or walk the trails.  One trail is a boardwalk on the river with a tower you can climb to see the sights and it is gorgeous.  
My friend and I last went the weekend before it was closing down for the Covid Quarantine
It was nice to be back in the beautiful Florida early summer LOL  

read about it here






Just a baby

























My goal this year is to explore more and to go do things more than I've done.  A lot of times when I have our dear respite worker here I feel like I should go and do errands or work around the house doing things I can't do if I'm here by myself with the kids.  But life is short and there is so much to do and see in Florida!  I'm planning on blogging about it maybe it'll encourage you to explore your area or visit some of these wonderful places when you come to Florida!