ALL ABOUT CHICKENS CATS & TABLES

I love chickens but it's a lot of work and money to do it right.  People ask me all the time about how much money I save.....NONE  According to my tally each egg is worth about $100 after being coops, food, water containers, nets, cement blocks for protection bedding....etc

But they are a fun hobby and we do like the eggs.  

It started with a chicken Dumpling literally jumping in my van at our church.  After a few Sundays I asked our sweet neighbor if I could have her.  Easy Peasy- free chicken....then I had to buy a coop.  Then after putting the coop together we could see it was worthless and I took it back.  She lived in a dog crate on the porch for a while.  Then the " CHICKEN MATH" BEGAN.  It's real folks!

A friend gave me an old coop and 4 OLD chickens.  In fact one died within days.  But it was on...... then someone gave me a crazy rooster.  I had to give him away because he chased everybody including one of Selah's nurses.  So at this point I have 4 chickens..... Let's see if I can even remember it right.....A animal rescue was giving away groups of chickens- one Rooster with 5 hens.  I took them in.  I didn't want the Roo but he is the best!  He is gorgeous and takes care of his girls.  When I put the food out he doesn't eat before he calls them all over to eat.  His group of girls are small I forgot the name of them- but they are crazy about brooding and hatching chicks

Then I bought some chicks to raise in the incubator- 4 Ironically as grown hens all four were killed by two different attacks.  Three by a dog and 1 by a racoon.  Both attacks taught me how to be safer with them.  

The Chicken Math continued..... I was contacted about this lady who is a hoarder.  She had a yard full of chickens and a houseful of cats.  Shad and I went over there and captured about 6 chickens - that was fun.  By the time we got there it was about dark and we were running through a yard filled with all kinds of things that a person could fall and die on.  Then our oldest son wanted 2 of the cats.....what can I say?  Cat math happens too.

By this time I had a new giant coop and better fencing for the run.

Then I started letting them hatch some chicks.  Then I went to Rural KIng the day before Easter and they had a $1 clearance on supposably sexed chicks (which means they were supposed to be hens) Well the devil is a liar....I got 6 or 7 Roos out of that batch!  Then another hen went broody and hatched me some babies...

Recently disaster struck and a coon got in under the netting and killed 4 of my favorites including my first hen Dumpling and my 13 year old silkie.  I was ready to quit.  But I tightened up security even more in the pen although I still let them free range some.

Now I am looking for a home for 6-7 white leghorns, a Red Americana and a Easter Egger (he was Dumplings baby!  He hatched from a green egg.  I would keep them all but I do not have enough hens and it is already becoming a problem.  I want them to go to a good home, where they can free range and not be caged up all the time.  They are FREE but I have to check out the person who takes them.  I've offered them in a FB group and I've gotten some odd responses.  When I ask to see where they will live most of the folks quit messaging me.  I don't want them to be used in Cock fighting or eaten. There's alot of illegal fighting going on in this area.   They aren't meat birds.  I'm no vegetarian yet feel very guilty as I walk past their coop knowing I just ate a cousin.  So if you are interested or know someone who is you can email me at theclanton5@aol.com  I probably will want to help transport them so I can see where they will live.  

This is a young rooster an Americana

Here are some of the leghorns nad the Easter Egger is on the far left in front

This little grey girl is a mystery.  She hatched out at Easter same time as the white leghorns were hatched (at the store( and she is so tiny!  She's homegrown but I'm even entertaining the idea that she is a wild bird of quail LOL  This picture does not do her justice because it looks like she is the size of the chicken behind her but she is not!  

Do you see the little girl one in the middle of all the white ones below?

the red is from  watermelon juice!  They all looked like toddlers at a picnic

Where the coops were originally corn grew.  They love that area

I'm not sure where this fellow came from.  I think he was part of the round up at the hoarder's house but he's a keeper too.  He refuses to go in the coop which is good because him and our Main Roo don't get along in the coop together.  They are fine outside.  

This is his girl.  She hatched the last two sets of chicks and now is so over them.  She refuses to leave her man at night so they sleep on top of our run.  Yes it makes me nervous but they are more strong willed than I am at this point in my life and I wish them a long and happy life.

this is our pumpkin!  Yes they did that 

this is an old wives tale that works.  See these VANILLA  car air freshers?  They keep flies away!  It's like magic!  They work for about 30 days.  We have them on all our outer doors so flies won't come in the house.  You can thank me for checking these out.  I've used them all summer and can testified they work!

they come when I call like a puppy dog

CAT NEWS

Early this summer I tried to help a feral stray who was so sick.  I got him to the vet but he had so many things wrong they put the poor old fella to sleep.  Unfortunately one of the things he had was mange.  Although he never came up close some of my cats got it!   They all stay on flea meds but the OTC kind I get at the feed store and it was not strong enough.  Two went to my favorite place PLANNED PETHOOD (a low cost animal clinic that is so kind and helpful to me)  The vet did all kinds of stuff to them several shots and put everyone on a very strong flea med that protects from them mites that cause mange.  Thankfully after only one week they are all cleared or clearing up .  I am so grateful.  In all my animal years that is something I'd never dealt with.   

Dobbie before mange  He is 18 pounds put this picture makes him look like a kitten

Sarge he also had it bad

Twin !

Mama Cat

Twin 2 who also fell off the roof....yep she hurt her leg and had to recover on the back patio AKA Yvonne's ICU

So 28 chickens not including the one stray chicken that comes in my yard most days to eat.  I've followed her at night and she roosts in a tree in the woods. 10 cats and one dog who has more allergies than anyone I know!   40 animals including Wild Girl....that's crazy!But I'm willing to part with 8-9 roos  I'm not sure if one leghorn is male or female LOL

I have to show off my $200 find on marketplace.  I am IN LOVE  with this old table.  It's the one I've wanted all my life.  We do need 4 more chairs if anyone has or sees them out there  If I can't find chairs I may have a bench built.  I told my family if a fire happens or we have to evacuate then they'll have to look out for themselves the table comes first LOL  And yes we are decorated for fall.  I have HIGH hopes for this fall/winter according to the Farmer's Almanac that my family trusted just like the Bible it is supposed to be unseasonably cold this winter.  I am trusting God for that!  This has been a hot summer but things have already cooled down/  Right now is my type of summer - it's hot but you can actually be ok in the shade. It's only in the 90's.  

I've never been a huge table cloth girl but I like this and am already looking for a Christmas one for this 8 foot table 

Well have a good day and I'm going to try to keep on blogging!

September Update

 Well.....another update.  I'm the worst blogger .  The weird thing is there's so much inside of me that I want to write about but life gets in my way.  I can assure you the blog posts I write in my head are the BEST I ever write- probably because they concern things I can't really post about!  I always threaten to write a book to be published after my death.  That would be worth the money to buy I promise!

Since the last post we survived Sarah's 2nd hospitalization, a hurricane  Shad's girlfriend leaving for college and a move (our oldest son and wife).  Whew! 

First to Sarah..... she got very ill quickly.  Going with my gut I called her doctor and asked for a script for her to have an x-ray here in town.  As soon as she got back we got a call for her to go to St Joes Children's hospital.  Basically her small intestines were not moving, there was a problem where the stomach empties into the small intestines.  She was in for 5 days on IVs just to give her intestines a chance to "rest"  The week of Sept 25 she will be at Arnold Palmer Children's Hospital to go through testing on the mobility of her intestines.  My poor baby!  There is a big problem because despite her malrotation surgery she has been in the hospital 3x in the past year for extended times despite us following every bit of medical advice.  She takes 2 caps  of Mirelax each morning - that dosage would keep most adults in the bathroom for hours.  And while it does give her very loose stools (believe me I have some poop stories)  there are times her small intestines just do not move things along.  Her large intestines are relatively good.  She may face more surgeries.  Please pray for our girl!

We survived Idalia with no problems-had all the family home You know that makes me happy!  My hometown of Perry Florida got hit so hard along with our beaches Keaten Steinhatchee and Horseshoe Beach.  My granny had a little house down at Horseshoe Beach and if I ever get skin cancer (God forbid) it'll be because of that place!   Great memories in all of those places!  Thankfully no one died and the communities are pulling together and helping each other.  Growing up we were always told that a hurricane would not hit our area in the "Big Bend" of Florida because the water was so shallow that it didn't "draw in" hurricanes.  Evidently that bit of knowledge was not true!  

Shad's sweet girlfriend left for college- we all miss her around here!  He got a chance to go see her this week so he's happy!  Steve and Nichole moved to our town to our old house.  We adore having them near us.  Selah is doing great!  Last week we managed to see her 3x-that's always my weekly goal or even more if I can.  We are so thankful for the unique group home she is in.  Sam is doing good.....

The older I get the more I understand how incredibly important my family is!  I love having adult children-when the boys were young I literally mourned ahead of time about them leaving home.  LOL But it is such fun to have adult sons who bring you home daughter(s) in love.  (I'm hoping to have another one before too long)  Almost every stage of motherhood has been wonderful except a little bit of the teenage years I could have done without LOL I'm blessed!

Selah in one of her birthday outfits.  I totally redid her closet for her 19th birthday.  We are into T-shirt dresses around here

Jon and Sam relaxing after supper a few nights ago:)  Like father like son!  They were both snoring.

Hope you are having a great month! 

Summer 2023

 

Summer 2023 is almost over....

in the last few months we have been busy.  We went on a Dolphin Cruise out of Tarpon Springs

Sam loves a boat

July 4th was fun at home 

Jon and I went to the Department of Corrections yearly conference in Orlando which was a lot of fun!  Jon is the longest running chaplain in the state at almost 27 years as a chaplain.  He spoke at the chaplain's conference.

Sweetness

my sweet girl we went to an event at Hillsborough State park

Hope y'all are all doing great! 

Church Hurt

 Y'all know I'm a "church girl" the type that "cut her teeth on a church pew" Some of my first memories were of church.  In some ways my upbringing was very strict but in other ways very lenient.  My great aunt had 2 rules for me as a teenager.  

!.  Don't come home pregnant

2. Don't wake us up when you come in

The 1980's at its' best.  My boys would have LOVED those rules!  Of course church attendance was mandatory but that was something that I didn't really mind.  For me there is an attraction to church buildings, walking in a sanctuary feels like home to me.  Going to church was something I looked forward to doing.  It wasn't because I was so extra spiritual but it was home, a place that brought rest to my soul even when I didn't understand or wasn't able to explain.  

Having been in church all these 50 plus years has given me quite the opportunity to have "CHURCH HURT"  That's a term that has been around for awhile now and is gathering steam with release of  "Shiny Happy People" and "The Secrets of Hillsong" We watched both of them (fighting sleep as always- no sex scandal can keep us awake by the time we get the kids to bed at night LOL) 

The shows had similarities and differences.  From dumpy fundamentalists  to cool mega church  folks with skinny jeans....Two extremes of the  evangelical movement. (I finally understand how the Muslims can have the two branches of Islam that wants to kill each other!) I'm not really in either camp- probably theologically I'm closer to Hillsong but in behavior closer to the fundamentalists!  For most of my growing up years the only pants that were allowed were Culottes.  Ever now and then the crazy fashion folks still try to bring back Culottes and I curse them!  I do wear skinny jeans and love them!  But in reality my life is far from either group.  

But both shows had similarities of people being hurt in the name of God- sexually, financially, spiritually, deceit, control, reputation etc.... Why do we get more angry at situations that happen in churches or church ran programs?  Because we expect more of people who say they are serving God, especially leaders.  We know people do all kinds of things to others but we think of church as a sanctuary from all of that awful stuff,  But unfortunately some church folks even leaders  can hurt others.  The bible warns about that in the Old Testament Ezekiel 34  and in  the New Testament Matthew 7.  Some folks start out good but allow sin to creep in and some folks literally decide to falsely serve God in order to take advantage of vulnerable people. 

Watching the shows there seems to be some things that were hyped up and exaggerated- people will also jump on a band wagon just as fast as they can.  The devil can use a sinful leader to tear down Christianity but he can also use a person who lies or exaggerates situations to get attention.  BUT no one should have given anyone any ammunition to use against Christianity.  The bible says in 1 Peter 4:14-19

14 If ye be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are ye; for the spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you: on their part he is evil spoken of, but on your part he is glorified.15 But let none of you suffer as a murderer, or as a thief, or as an evildoer, or as a busybody in other men's matters.16 Yet if any man suffer as a Christian, let him not be ashamed; but let him glorify God on this behalf.17 For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God?18 And if the righteous scarcely be saved, where shall the ungodly and the sinner appear?19 Wherefore let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to him in well doing, as unto a faithful Creator.

The bible literally says no christian (this was being written to Christians) should suffer as a murderer thief evildoer or a busybody.....This scripture also says that that judgement must begin at the house of the God _ but non believers are not free but if it begins in the house of God then what shall the end be for non believers????

My point is look to Jesus.  There are plenty of people out there who have agendas and rules whether they look cool and hip or out of step and dowdy who can hurt you! 

How do you know who to trust?  Well no one is absolutely perfect.  Not even ME LOL 

But first read the bible- no one church has everything perfectly correct. Why do I know that?  Because we are human.  Look for leaders who serve- and I do NOT mean this silly false "servant leadership" that's another new litttle term going 'round.  Most people that talk that ONLY serve when it benefits them or their church.  Will they get their hands dirty without a photo op?  Do they do things without anything in return?  

Is the person/leader miserable? I will be honest, I know folks who boast of their prayer life or bible study and they are the most disagreeable miserable people and makes everyone around them miserable.  

Trust your gut and God given discernment.  

But at the same time, do not be critical BALANCE - BALANCE - BALANCE 

So over the years I've been hurt mostly by other leaders a few times by people in the pews .  God has also given me discernment about situations that have kept us out of problems or gotten us out of problems.  One time when we were young we worked in a ministry that grow out of something we had been doing for awhile.   The leader we worked had a good reputation but we knew something was off. We got ourselves out of that ministry situation. A few months later it comes out the guy was stealing money using drugs having affairs.... we just thought he was a jerk but we knew things were off not knowing how off they really were!  What's so funny is the guy actually spiritually attacked me for the depression I was battling after losing my twins and almost dying just a few months before.  But see people don't bother me too much.  I told him and I quote...'when you lose two of your children you can tell me how to feel but until then shut the hell up....."   Yeah we were all in a car going to a church service, that was a pretty quiet ride....LOL  

There is a time and place for correction and reproof -no one is above that- again it is about balance.  Looking back I'm pretty sure he wanted to keep me off balance so I didn't pick up on things because I was starting to question some things.  In all honesty there is a time to grieve but your identity  can not be completely tied up to a grief/sorrow/loss. We all know folks who have had something terrible happen to them and that has become their identity.  That's not healthy.  

There is sin everywhere- does that make it right? NO! Will there always be sin? YES!  Years ago right out of college I worked for a juvenile justice program for first time offenders.  It was back in the day when we had "Scared Straight" now that has been determined to be too scary for our little delinquents.  Anyhow once every few weeks we would take them for a county jail tour and monthly we'd take some juvies for a state prison tour.  It was like a field trip,  The inmates loved it too.  They'd cut up and yell at the kids.  The officers would lecture the kids.  It was funny to me.  (I'm not the most sympathetic  person)  One time I had this little chubby kid who had shoplifted.  The inmates were yelling the officers were lecturing  and this kids said "That won't happen to me I'm a Christian" Bless his heart he got it even more then!  Hopefully he learned his lesson and laughs about it now.

Do Christians sin? Yes and a if a person says they are without sin....RUN!  But do they ask for forgiveness?  Christianity is being scrutinized like never before -I follow some sites out of curiosity.  This one site gets rabid about any minister who has fallen into any type of sexual sin (I'm not taking about sexual abuse -those ministers or anyone should go to prison-they are up in arms about ministers that have affairs)    People foam at the mouth at how the minister should never be allowed to pastor again.  I had to go back to the story of David who sinned but he was still called a man after God's own heart AFTER he repented!  And repenting does mean more than just mumbling "forgive me God" it means turning away from the sin and changing.  

So what am I saying? Look to Jesus!  Man will  disappoint you.  Don't get caught up in the newest hype whether it is cool or seems to be extra spiritual.  If someone preaches a gospel that adds  a bunch of rules to be a good Christiaan- RUN......  Although in all fairness humans are just that human.  We crave boundaries to ensure we are doing things right and in the spiritual sense to ensure we are "good christians"  It's so much easier to follow rules than to follow Jesus.  That's why people turn to cults.  It's easier to think if I do ABC and do not do XYZ I'm a good christian.  But if someone doesn't teach the Bible and just gives you a feel good sermon telling you all the things you want to hear....RUN  A wise professor once said "all extremes are dysfunctional" 

So what do you do if you get hurt in the church?  Somethings are obviously very different than others.  It's one thing if someone criticizes the clothes you wear- it's another if they abuse your child. No matter the action realize that action is not from God!  But people must be held accountable especially if a crime has been committed.  Some things you can shrug off and just consider the source "bless their hearts"  Other thing need to be brought to the attention of the church authorities and if necessary (if it is an illegal act) the police.  

And folks you can NOT just live in a continual offended state.  In the church world there are folks who literally go from church to church and get offended everywhere...Sometimes when I meet someone for the first time they will tell me how the last church they were in hurt their feelings.....without fail it won't be long till their feelings get hurt at our church.  We've known folks over the years that had to be soothed every time you turned around.  Don't be that person.  

Again it's Jesus....that just overwhelmed my mind recently.  there is no one person, no one denomination that gets everything right but there is one who is right and it's Jesus.   That thought brought a comfort to my heart.  

Don't let evil win or overwhelm you.  Keep doing what is right.  Look to Jesus not man. 

40 years ago

 What were you doing 40 years ago?  I was graduating from high school!  40 years seems so old!  It's hard to believe I am even 40 years old much less out of high school for so long.  

Being brought up in all the secrets & oddities  of my life made school at times a challenge.  I was in gifted/high classes but so incredibly bored I did the least possible.  Luckily for me I didn't need to study much to make passing grades because I didn't study at all!  In high school "back in the day" it was very easy to skip school and I did it on a regular basis. In all of that I only got caught one time!  In my heart I had goals but no idea of how to make them come true.  There was no one in my life that "had my back" my family basically ignored me because there was a lot of medical things going on.  My great  uncle had passed away, my great aunt had Alzheimer's and my other great aunt had some mental health issues (looking back) .  Several of my friends had parents who loved me and wanted the best for me but I was not their focus.  There were some sweet folks who cared for me in my church but again there was only so much they could do for me.  

None of my teachers (except one who might have been a little inappropriate in this day and age LOL)  paid me much attention and I didn't try to get close to them.  I never liked "brown nosers" Living in a small southern town, somebody like me who didn't have many personal connections wasn't one that teachers paid alot of attention to.  No one was mean don't get me wrong but I wasn't "pushed forward" or encouraged much.  In fact as a senior I had a mandatory meeting with a guidance counselor and told her I wanted to go to college.  She totally discouraged me and told me all the reasons it wouldn't work out for me.  

Looking back I realize how incredible that I am where I am now.  But God.....

On my graduation night no one came to see me graduate.  Of course my friends' parents were there but I didn't have any one person who came to see just me graduate. I went home with my friend because her family were giving us a graduation party.   And then some of my plans went awry for that night (thank God LOL that's a story I'm not ready to share)

How did things change for me?  God God and God!  After graduation I started a secretarial class....yeah...that was NOT for me!  One day I got a mailing from Southeastern University  I had no idea where it was located but in my heart God spoke to me that I'd go to college there.  Again there was NO support!  In fact I was told over & over how I would not be able to go to college.  Mostly because I didn't have the money.  My family told me not to be silly and to "go get a job at the K-mart"  They also didn't like SEU because it was another denomination's college.  But God helped me.  That situation taught me and was a turning point in my life.  Having to support myself  and do it all on my own (not one penny from anyone) taught me to be independant and realize all I need is God.  It's a lonely place.  Thankfully there were some folks here and there that helped me.  A lady from our church and her daughter dropped me off at college which was one of the most important things anyone has ever done for me.  It was a 4 hour drive and I barely had enough to get started at college- it would have been more stressful if I had had to ride a bus!  

After I was dropped off, the whole situation overwhelmed me but I was there and I wasn't giving up no matter what.   Looking back at that little girl, I'm impressed & sad for her.  For years I lived with my heart in my throat wondering how I was going to make it but somehow I always did! There were times I did some stupid things but overall I kept my eyes on God and my goals.  

June 3 1983

See those heels???  My favorite shoes and the reason I just had foot surgery LOL

Dang no wrinkles.....

So if you ever get a chance to help someone out who is trying to do something with their life- help them!  You may be the person that makes the biggest contribution to their life at a pivot moment.  There were those folks who were there for me like that- sometimes it can just be a word of encouragement- doing something practical- being kind.....

Because of how alone I was -I was determined my kids would never experience that feeling as they grew up! Once I was past elementary school no one ever came to anything I was involved in.  There was no one in the audience for me.  And honestly there were times someone could have come...it just wasn't important enough for them to do it.  Of course life can be hard but sometimes a person has to push through and do what needs to be done. Things mean alot to kids.  Just remember that!

So we will be having our 40th year class reunion in the fall during the Pine Tree Festival.  The Festival is my hometown's big yearly celebration of the Pine Tree!  We are the Pine Tree Capital of the South:)  None of my family have ever gone to the festival- it has always fallen on our oldest son's birthday and/or our college's university's homecoming even I haven't gone since my freshman year in college so it's been a few minutes.  My husband is coming and our big kids are "thinking" about coming...we will see.  It's going to be fun.  

Remember to be an encourager and a practical person in other's lives!

Family Update

 Y'all I am the worst blogger!  Thanks to all who message me!

Soooooo.....Sam finally has has recovered!  He came home after a total of 16 days in the hospital.  It was exhausting.  We are monitoring him closely!  I'm out of the boot YAY!  My foot seems to have recovered for the most part although I get twinges when i do too much.  One night I had to ice my foot.  For Christmas Jon bought me these wonderful socks with ice packs in them.  They were one of my favorite gifts!!!

Shad bought a new car!

And this!  Not a thrilled mom!

But he is cute

Mother's Day!

OH my goodness Mother's day 1996

Jon and I ran away for another cruise.  That's our one get away.  We don't have  'date night" and even when we do go out occasionally it's not the same knowing we have to go home and get back to work!  A cruise gets us away  and it's cheaper than getting a hotel at the beach and going out to eat IF you are careful.  I'm planning on writing a blog soon giving our tips

This time we went to Jamaica, Cayman Islands with a stop in Key West

Key West.  I didn't do much lol I went to CVS and walked around for a minute  It was soooo hot

Dress Up night

AWWWWWWW one of my favorite places to be- somewhere south of Cuba headed East

Jamaica 

SkyLift

Mystic Mountain

Dunn River Falls

Hell-Cayman Islands

Even Hell had a message

Cayman Island

Turtle Sanctuary 

Last night 

Our son and daughter in law worked the National Religious Broadcaster's yearly convention and we got tickets to a meet & greet with Donald Trump Jr.  That was a lot of fun He is really a good speaker.

Steve & Nichole working

Sarah and Sam got accepted into the St Joe Complex Care Clinic.  The clinic has hired a doctor to care for older teens and young adults.  Sarah was the first to go in last week.  We took her to Olive Garden to celebrate afterwards.  She loves OG and can eat pasta fagioli soup which they will graciously blend for us.

love this picture with Shad and his girlfriend!  Aren't they cute????

Selah is doing great  Today I went and stayed with her for awhile and Jon is going tomorrow after we finish Sam's first appointment at the new clinic.  Please keep her in your prayers.  It's hard to not have her at home but I'm so happy with our group home.  It has such a great reputation with the medical community.  

Hope you all have a wonderful summer and I'll try and update more often