Friday, June 11, 2021

Shrimp Gumbo Recipe

 As you can imagine I cook A LOT!  Growing up my family was all about food.  They loved to eat.  We had a small farm and then a larger family farm out of town so until I was a teen, the majority of my food was from there.  Of course as all my old folks got too old to continue things changed but they all had small farms/gardens near their houses.  We had a few acres of land and grew tomatoes, corn, squash, cucumbers, okra, collards and mustard greens, peas/beans of all kinds, eggplants, green peppers and more.  We also had chickens and hogs.  We ate three meals a day-and every meal usually had two meats.  It was a bit overwhelming LOL  I was very picky which probably saved me from being fat!  But actually no one was over weight because even when they were older they all worked outside until they just couldn't anymore.  My granny had a garden until she was in her 90's!

So with all that cooking, I didn't really learn how to cook.  My aunts were afraid I'd get burned in the kitchen so they didn't want me in there.  They knew a girl who had been burned by oil and they were afraid that would happen to me.  So I just enjoyed the food.  I did help pick  clean up & take care of the animals.  Then off to college to eat in a cafeteria for 4 years....  When I got married I couldn't cook anything but frozen pizzas LOL  And I had a love/hate relationship with food anyhow.  I had a fear of gaining weight like a family member (who didn't live on a farm) so I dealt with some food issues for a long time.  But once I got married I started cooking.  We already knew that heart disease ran in Jon's family so  I tried to cook as healthy as possible for what I knew at the time.  Looking back now I'm not so sure we were that healthy!  

But over time I learned some basic meals.  After becoming parents, I had to up my game, then as we added more kids I really had to up it!  It's not that expensive to go out to eat with 2-3 folks especially if one is a kid but with 7 we almost need a loan at McDonald's  Also about 12 years ago I started a garden. it was fun and a great punishment for the boys to have to weed if they got in trouble!  To this day they fuss at me about it! LOL  Both of them say they'll never have a garden... we shall see I said the SAME thing!  

It's funny the smell of the garden makes me happy.  Tomatoes are not my thing unlike my husband who will eat a whole one sliced up by itself.  But the smell of a tomato plant or a fresh tomato off the vine just makes me so happy!  My family grew massive collards which are so easy to grow it's a sin.  I do not like them but I love the smell of them cooking...and my husband says I can cook them like they are supposed to be cooked but I won't touch them!  

Just thinking about those summer days in the garden makes me miss all my old folks so much!  If we could go back for just one day....early morning picking the veggies, playing outside, swinging under the massive grapevine, reading a book in the afternoon, snapping peas on the front porch after supper.... so thankful I had the privilege to experience that time....  At the time I probably didn't think it was much of a privilege.....but it was!

So several of my friends have asked me to post recipes because over the years I've learned short cuts and I cook for a bunch of folks.  There's alot of modifying and exchanges in some recipes to make them more heart healthy but it turns out pretty good most of the time.  I have about 20 go to meals & use the crockpot and air fryer to make life simpler . So now I'm going to add recipes to my blog along with my 'Native Florida trips" 

Today is one of the most easiest recipes in the world!  You absolutely can not go wrong!  

SHRIMP GUMBO

Use Zatarain's Gumbo mix!  Add it to a deep pot with 6 cups of broth and stir it.  Bring to a boil then simmer for 25 minutes.  You can add veggies to it, I usually add at least a cup of frozen okra.  Then cut up the chicken sausage but don't add yet (it's already cooked )  Then in a skillet  cook a pound of deveined peeled shrimp with the tails OFF!  Once the shrimp start to pink up, add a bag of seasoning blend.  Cook the shrimp till it's all nice and pink.  About 5 minutes before the mix is done add the shrimp & the cooked sausage  It's so good!! (of course if you buy uncooked sausage it can be cooked right along with the shrimp) Sometimes I add the cooked sausage to the shrimp  right before I add it to the gumbo to crisp it up just a little bit.  





With my family I have doubled the recipe and cooked two boxes of the gumbo mix together and it was fine.  This is also something I can puree for Sarah.  

Usually I make corn bread and a salad with this meal.  Tomatoes seem to go good with this too.  For the sake of time I usually just use a corn bread mix but ALWAYS heat the pan in the oven to make it crispy!  Spray the cooking pan with oil heat for 10 minutes at 375 degrees then pour the mix in and cook it.  Often I cut up jalapeno peppers into the cornbread.  We like spicy! I prefer the mix on the left for some reason but I use them all.  BTW my granny would probably whip my tail for using a mix but she did not have 5 kids!  LOL


For the mixes that call for milk or an egg- I use fat free milk and egg whites.  That's a way to modify and cut fat and cholesterol.  As much as I love this gumbo I do not cook it but a couple of times a year because shrimp have lots of cholesterol even though they are fat free.  When I cook the shrimp/sausage I do not use any oils.  But I do use oil to spray the cornbread pan.  But just a quick spray.


Play around with it-add veggies you like to it.  Try okra!  I know folks who aren't southern think okra is yucky but it's good in stews and its wonderful FRIED -but isn't everything????


Saturday, June 5, 2021

Dolphin Cruise/Tarpon Springs

 We are still doing our Florida day trips!  My goal is to at least do 2 a month.  It's really uplifting and good to plan and be able to do some little trips.  A few weeks ago Jon, Shad and I took a dolphin cruise.  We used  Odyssey Cruise/Dolphin Cruise in Tarpon Springs.  It was a 2.5 hour cruise.  Part of the time the boat is docked on Anclote Key State Park-which is only accessible by boat.   We had a blast!  The cruise was well worth the money and it was relaxing.  We went on a Friday since Jon and Shad were both off that day and it wasn't too crowded.  We also got the first boat ride of the day so that helped too.  When we docked-it was easy to tell the next boat trip would be completely full.   We only saw some dolphin on the way in but it was a great trip.  













Anclote Key State Park -no filters 




The boat




Shad




He's so cute



It was gorgeous



The Gulf of Mexico






Our favorite restaurant and bakery conveniently right across the street from the Dolphin Cruise!  



The inside of the restaurant is cool looking in a retro way



But we like eating outside unless it's too hot


This is an iconic picture.  This shop has been family owned for decades.  the young man who owns it now is very proud and motivated   They also do fishing tours.  They have a bunch of stray cats they take care of and I love that of course.  All the sponge you see the owner harvested it.  

Dolphin Gift Shop 810 Dodecanese Blvd Tarpon Springs Florida


You might guess I like the Tarpon Springs area.  It's a fun area with so many different things to do.  I've not even touched on the beaches right there.  I'll try and get to them before the summer is over.  



One of my friends snapped this picture of Shad out with his friends.  I just love it for some reason LOL  He just got a 2nd job working at our local movie theater.  I love it!  He said that it's a family tradition to have a 2nd job since Jon and Steve both work two jobs.  Growing up my best friend's family had a movie theater in the next little town over from us.  Occasionally I got to go and "help" them" on the weekends.  That was fun for me.  I also worked for a short time at our movie theater in my home town before I went to college.  


And our oldest son is on vacation out west....I'm sooooooo jealous!  I'll post some of his pictures in the next blog.  They are amazing.  


Have a great weekend!

Monday, May 31, 2021

Memorial Day 2021



This Memorial Day I'm thinking of some men from my family who gave all!

Raymond Hines died in WWII
He would have been my grandmother's cousin




John Hines was also my grandmother's cousin.  He and Raymond were brothers.  





Thomas Corbin was brother of one of my cousins from his mom's first marriage.  He was killed in Vietnam on his very last day there!  



Jon and I both have other family members who have fought for our country in almost every war.  We are so blessed to have a legacy like that!  Recently I learned who my birth father really was and I'm honored that he was in WWII also!  For a girl who is a WWII buff it really made me happy!  


So Memorial Day is much more than "a long weekend" for us!




Sarah and I have on matching patriotic shirts:) 

 


Yesterday we had a big day at church with a missionary and a luncheon so today was a laid back day for our family.   Actually our oldest is on vacation with some of his college buds in Las Vegas.  Shad worked today, Jon went and walked the woods and I grocery shopped then did meal prep and some meals!  

Sarah still eats pureed food so I do a lot of stews for her, cook, puree and then freeze.  That way if we have meals that aren't good for pureeing she still has a good meal.  Today I did a big pot of chicken and dumplings and pureed some for her for later.  I also did a beef stew and pureed most of that, just kept some out for her and Sam's lunch tomorrow.  I actually bought an extra fridge to keep her meals in.  This week I will also be cooking and storing Brunswick Stew, Hamburger Stew, Taco Chili and regular chili  She often eats what we eat but there's some things she doesn't like and some things don't puree  very good.  Mostly take out doesn't work for her.  It's not that hard to meet her dietary needs if I plan ahead of time.  I do sometimes buy frozen meals for her and Sam for lunch because the meals often are easy to puree but I prefer home made.  As she has progressed she can eat a thick puree like thick oatmeal, and often we can just smush  some things down  with a fork like baked beans or bananas.  Traveling with Sarah is not easy we eat mostly Chick Fil A (soup) or Wendy's chili.....  But it's ok




Tomorrow Sam returns to horse therapy after several months break! If you remember he had some major issues we had to find out the cause- it seems he had vertigo or something....who knows the doctors can only guess.  But we gave him a break.  So now he's starting back once a week to see how things go.  Sarah will continue to have 2 sessions 2 times a week  They've also starting vision therapy with two different teachers.  Believe it or not it took me years to get this service for them.  It's rather unbelievable and too complicated to even explain.  It totally ticks me off but at least now we have it with some teachers we know and who know the kids.  They will be busy over the summer.  


Until next time..... stay safe and thankful!

Saturday, May 29, 2021

May Shenanigans

Lord have mercy as my old granny would say look who has his real license!  He is now the proud driver of a 13 year old mini van-we did the same with his older brother, safe ride LOL  But I have to say he is so helpful to pick up things for us at the store and it's great not to have to chauffer him around between his job, friends, and other things!  I'm totally spoiled! 



More exploring Florida...

This time me and my friend went to Ulele Restaurant and Armature Works in Tampa.  Armature Works is this big Industrial building that has been turned into a food/wine place with several restaurants and bars.  My older boys took me there one afternoon over Christmas break and to be honest I didn't really care for it (they thought it was the bomb)  To be fair I was probably already sick with Covid and didn't realize it so I was so tired and didn't enjoy the long walk from where we parked .  Plus I had on boots so my feet were killing me. It was loud and had so many small restaurants that required standing in line for your over priced meal. (don't worry there were no outbreaks of covid from me being there!)  So my friend and I thought we'd try it together.  I still didn't like it nor did she.  Maybe we are just not hip enough LOL  It still was loud, over priced and too annoying to have to stand in line like you would at a mall food court for very expensive not that great food   You can watch their video  Armature Works you might be cooler than we are and enjoy it!

 So we went next door to   Ulele Restaurant on the banks of Ulele Springs.  It was much more our style.  We sat outside  and enjoyed our lunch in the beautiful surroundings.  The lunch was great and the prices more appropriate. 









Right beside the restaurant is Ulele  Springs Water Works, there's another park just sough of there all along the Riverwalk.  








We  took a stroll on Tampa's River walk.  There are swings that you can sit in and watch the river traffic and solve all the world's problems.  But you can walk for several miles in each direction if you'd like to!  We didn't that day



This year I am purposely trying new things and going new places.  I don't know about you but I can get stuck in a rut and if I do go out I go to the same places I've gone to for 30 years or more.  Luckily both my husband and one of my closest friends like to do explore new places.  It's funny my husband would rather explore new nature/outdoor things and my friend likes outdoor stuff but also is up for little shops and restaurants.  I like to do both so I can go with the flow and be happy with both LOL


Living in Florida it's amazing the things that are in our own backyard!




We had a little scare with our Ginger.  She's the big girl on the top left.  I noticed one day that she was not acting like herself.  See how her tail was drooping?  That's a hug sign a chicken is not well.  

(Dumplings is on the top right looking away.  Shorty is on the bottom left and Frenchy is on the right she is my little girl)



It seemed like I could feel something on her backside plus she had a bald spot.  Previously I'd thought she had lice or mites but couldn't find any one her or the other girls but I treated for it anyhow.  I tried giving her a bath in Epsom salts just in case she was egg bound.  Even though she did not feel good she did not appreciate my care LOL  Nor did I appreciate having to clean the bathroom after she got away from my and flapped all over the place  


So my husband took her to the vet for me.  Again I can only think what my family would have thought about me taking a 7 year old non laying hen to a vet!!!  And I admit while I love animals, the dark places I've seen in this world reminds me that humans are so much more important.  There's a balance somewhere and I probably was a bit off balance with Ginger.  But let me tell you about Ginger, last year I went through a deep valley - our whole family did-  Ginger greeted me every day, every time I walked outside and made me feel a little better.  I felt I at least owed it to her to have her put to sleep humanely.  BUT!  After a day at the vet some tests, two shots she is totally back to normal!  I am having to deworm ALL four chickens (there's alot of squawking pecking and fussing going on....and the hens are doing it too hahah!)  What a JOB!  Have you ever had to give medicine to a chicken?  Yeah me neither!  I've given medicine to dogs cats and terrible children but giving liquid meds to chickens is a whole 'nother ballgame!  




But Ginger is happy and healthy!  They all love watermelon so they've been getting a half one a day.  





Hope you are having a good summer thus far!  Our temps are in the 90's but that's ok I know how to live with heat.  I don't know how to live in cold weather....what do you wear?  It's so complicated for me!  For example when we were in NY in January in a "blizzard" it was awful outside but hot inside.  So if you wore a sweater under your coat, it was too hot when you came inside.... In Florida just wear shorts and flip flops so much easier!!!  



Monday, May 24, 2021

Spring 2021



Easter 21
smallest group picture we've had in many years!
















For years I've felt like our house had a "disjointed' look about it and this was the year I've decided to redo some things.  One of those things was Sam's room.  He sleeps in a hospital bed because of sleep apnea.  But everything needed an update.  I like how it turned out!






Jon and I are continuing to explore new places in Florida.  A few Fridays ago we went to the Anclote River / Tarpon Springs area


Key Vista Nature Park




this is a real Florida beach



There is a tower there











the pier is a little south of the first park Anclote Gulf Park


Then the docks of Tarpon Springs





Our FAVORITE restaurant and bakery



We finished the day at Anclote River Park that has a small beach on it right where the river meets the gulf.   Everything was free except parking at Tarpon Springs and the Greek food!  Actually if you eat at Hellas restaurant they have free parking in the back!




Molly modeling for us




Me and a few of my babies lol




My sweet girls





More backyard pictures








Bruno one of my real rescues.  He came up or was dropped off and looked awful.  I was actually afraid of him because he was so large and feral.  But since I'm the cat whisper somehow I was able to connect with him and he is now the sweetest boy.  I don't' really want to rescue animals, they just come across my unwilling path and I have to take care of them  Sometimes I'm able to find homes for them like a recent cat and her newborn kittens but it's rare when that happens.  


THIS is why I have no garden I'm growing chickens!




This year we went to the annual banquet for Emerald M Therapeutic Riding Stables   It is always a lot of fun and our Sarah was featured again!



A picture with Laurie and Lisa the therapists - we clean up good LOL believe me most of our time spent together is times without make up or dressy clothes 








Sarah's favorite thing HORSE

This video was shown at the Banquet

Sarah's video Please watch this video about Sarah and Emerald M Therapeutic Riding Center  If you ever want to donate to them-it would be a blessing they do so much for so many people!  We are so blessed to be a part of this!!!




Look who is home!  We are so glad to have Shad home after his freshman year in Arizona!



Mother's Day 2021 I have 5 reasons to be happy on this day and I'm so thankful for us all being together




My sweet Sarah




He's a Keeper




So glad to have our boy home!








the One who started it all my bearded baby


my stinker Sam




Sweet Selah She was not enjoying the sun