Saturday was a busy and fun day. Steve and I got up at SIX AM to go to a giant community yard sale on the other side of town. I haven't been to a yard sale in years, I prefer thrift stores rather then just driving around but since this was a big community one, with several sub divisions participating, I thought it would be fun. That's what I thought at 11pm on Friday night, at 6am on Saturday morning I was not sure it was such a great idea LOL but I got up and took a quick shower and we were off..... I was really hoping to get a lot of clothes for Sarah, she has just had an explosion of growth! When she got home, she weighted 19 pounds and wore a 18 month size....at FIVE and a half years old. She now weighs almost 40 and wears a size 6. Most of the winter clothes I bought her last year was a size 4, so she needs some new stuff. I was also hoping to find her a big soft rocking horse, she has one but it is too small for her now. I took out $100 just in case....I spent $40 and look at all I got, 2 outside chairs, 2 folding wooden tv trays, a wooden clothes dryer, lots of clothes for Sarah and a few things for Selah, three nice toys for Sam & Sarah, a Batman video game, a cool picture frame, headphone & mic, some books, nice necklace and earring set....it was fun! We went around for about 3 hours....that was my yard sale experience for the year LOL

Then we got ready to go to our Halloween party! We meet monthly with LIFT disability group for a family function. Before we went to the party we had an emergency with a church member and went by the hospital. Jon went in while I sat in the car, I kept the car at the front of the hospital while we waited....at one point, some janitors went by and did a double take and turned around....I wonder WHY? it was just me and Steve sitting in the front of the car LOL
Here is the whole family!
Our little Indian
Jon is Green Lantern, Sam is an Indian, Steve is Batman, Shad is a Star Wars guy, I'm Wonder Woman and I'm holding my Little Red Riding Hood!
Little Red Riding Hood
Sarah's dress looked like an Ukraine dress
Green Lantana aka Jon has a big nose
Shad painting a pumpkin
Shad and his friends!
Steve took Sam outside for a little while
Look at me and my boy!
Love my Sam
Worship time
Sam & Shad sitting on the stage
Me and my super hero
it was our 24th anniversary by the way.....
So we quietly celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary.....24 years could it be? Who knew the twists & turns our lives would take 24 years ago? Surely not us!!!!! The time has flown by..... we married right after I turned 24 years old....on November 5th, if I counted right, I will be married as long as I've was single.... That is just crazy! I can truly say that on the day we got married we had NO idea whatsoever about what was ahead for us! Pretty sure 5 kids was NOT in the picture LOL..... all I knew was I was in love and I trusted Jon with my life.
I had never met anyone like him before..... I couldn't believe he was still single! But he was so focused on ministry and not looking for a wife that I had to go to the homeless shelter where he was the director to find him LOL! Yep I went to apply for a job, having NO idea that the director of the shelter was single and near my age! When we saw each other, we both vaguely remembered each other from a class in college. He actually remembered me far more than I did him !!! We hit it off from the second we met.....and eloped ONE month later:) It worked for us.....but we don't' recommend that for everyone else! What a whirlwind romance to say the least..... It's crazy that it worked, but it did and now it is a cute story. I think back then a lot of people thought we'd lost our minds. I may have even thought that a few times but we're still together 24 years later and have a lifetime of memories together.
I wonder what I'd thought if back then I could see the future? I'm sure even I could not have believed all that has happened to us over the years. We have seen more than our share of heartache & pain but God has been so faithful to us. I can say our life has been an interesting one, that's for sure. There used to be some chapters I wish I could have done away with but it all together is who we are today. We have an unique life story, that is certainly our own story, unlike anyone else's.......
I'm glad I said YES to him when he said "let's just go get married today" it's been interesting but I wouldn't' trade it for anything. Jon has become dearer to me as the years go by and I think I've become dearer to him too. We have become a team in a way I could have never imagined back then. We are sooooooooooooo different. In other words he has tact and I do not LOL! But our core values are sooooooooooooo alike and that makes life easy for us. We really never have disagreed on much as far as values and decisions about our family, money,church etc..... We pick at each other and fuss at each other about little crappy things but the big things are safe. Like he drives me CRAZY with getting out three or four water bottles at a time....just get ONE out and drink it and throw it away! But we also know what the other one is thinking without having to say a thing and as far as the ministry goes, he knows I "got his back" TOTALLY! Do NOT mess with my husband:)
I still think he is one of the kindest and "above reproach" person I know. What he is in public, he is in private or at the prison or wherever....I am so thankful for that. I've seen too many fake marriages in the ministry, who had fake kids.....people who were not themselves in public, because their real selves were ugly...hateful.... I was blessed that I walked into that homeless shelter that day...... All I was doing was looking for a ministry job where I could spend my time doing something for God with my life. I look back to the chain of events that led me to that moment and it amazes me......if I had veered one way or another, I may have never met Jon, but God directed our paths...... I had some other plans but God.......
So enough mushy stuff........:)
I want to share a song that we sang in church today. I had to type it up for the video screen real quick and I had never heard it before and thought it was just a new silly song....it is simple BUT when we started singing it, something inside me just broke. This little song has a deeper meaning....
Yours will be the only name that matters to me
the only One whose favor I seek
the only name that matters to me
Yours will be the friendship & affection I need
to feel my Father smiling on me
the only name that matters to me
And yours is the name the name that saved me
mercy & Grace the power that forgave me
And your love is all I ever needed
When I wake up in the land of glory
and with the saint I will tell my story
There will be one name I proclaim
Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, just that Name
Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, just that Name
When I wake up in the Land of Glory
And with the saints I will tell my story
There will be one Name that I proclaim
When I wake up in the Land of Glory
And with the saints I will tell my story
There will be one Name that I proclaim
This song spoke to me so strongly. It says what is in my heart....in a way that I could not by myself. Life is hard, ministry is hard and there are many lonely times. We have learned to look to God for whatever we need rather than depend on others. I don't mean just physical or financial things....but just keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, being committed and not letting anything sway us.
Being a pastor or a pastor's wife is not at all what some people would think it is. Being in any type of ministry is hard in many ways. One thing I've learned is you can't let anyone sway you. We've been hurt by others, but we have kept on going. You can't get bitter and you can't get discouraged. You can't worry whether you have anyone's favor or approval but God's, His is the only one that matters.
Our church continues to grow. We are just actually sitting back in amazement at the steady growth in our church. We haven't done anything but stayed faithful to God, through the good & bad times. No gimmicks, just trusting God and doing our part. We are thrilled with the growth BUT even if this had never happened, we were going to be faithful to God. Even if it were just our family meeting on a Sunday morning and believe me there were times when it was very close to that LOL! Our worship service was amazing today, there was a depth and a feeling like you were in the actual presence of God.
Today someone gave us a word from God. He is not from around here, he doesn't really know us and when he spoke to me it was the same feeling I got when the woman came up to me in the mall all those months ago.....it was a real word. I'm not going to share it on it, it's precious and I want to see what happens. But it was a good word and my spirit "jumped" inside me when I heard it and when I shared it with Jon. I don't go around accepting "words from God" I've had many years of experience with crackpots, so I know the real ones. And it usually is not coming from someone yelling "thus saith the Lord..." We are encouraged.
Thank you for continuing to pray for Selah. She is stable and came to church this morning and seemed very interested in looking around.